Living Fabulous

Fabulous Travel: Paris, Part 4

2012-02-13T15:00:00.001-07:00

Today we're going to talk about two of the most awesome attractions in Paris:

The Centre Pompidou and L'Arc de Triomphe

Let's start with the Centre Pompidou.

(Photo credit: Travelgate.net)

The Centre Pompidou is one of those places that's seriously as cool on the outside as it is inside. Doesn't that building make you want to go see what's inside? Me too.

So, what IS inside?

Works by Monet, Dali, Duchamp, and Renoir, that's what.

And loads of other fabulous artists too.

So, what do you need to know?

Like the rest of Paris, this museum is closed on Tuesdays. (What is it with Tuesdays?!)

It's open from 11 am to 9 pm every other day. You can buy your tickets online to avoid the queue, which I would HIGHLY recommend.

(OR: buy the Paris museum pass which gets you in to everything without any lines and it's WAY cheaper than trying to get admission to each one separately. Buy it HERE.)

You can download a museum map HERE, which I also highly recommend. It's better to have a plan going into these places.

Now, let's move on to the Arc de Triomphe:

(Photo credit: Travelgate.net)

Hello, iconic Paris landmark. You've all seen it in pictures, so why not make plans to see it in person?

First though, an aside: you know the huge roundabout that surrounds the Arc? Well, it's called the Etoile (it looks like a star with all the roads branching off) and no insurance company in the world will cover an accident that happens within it. It's that crazy. And Paris drivers are CRAZIER.

So...here's where the aside comes in. When I was a missionary in Paris, on a preparation day (when we could go see the sights), we decided to hit up the Arc. Only we didn't go the subterranean route...we decided that we were going to be rock stars and RUN ACROSS THE ETOILE. The website specifically says "DO NOT TRY CROSSING THE TRAFFIC CIRCLE."

Stupid? Yes.

Exhilarating? Definitely.

Would I do it again? Nope.

On to the crucial information now...

The Arc was commissioned in 1806 by Napoleon, to honor the Grand Armee, which is what the French army was called at the time. Don't laugh at them either. By that time, they'd conquered most of Europe. Poor Napoleon didn't live to see the construction finished though. He died in 1821, and the Arc wasn't finished until 1836.

You can see the Arc all day, every day. If you want to climb the 40 steps to the top, however, it's only open from 10 am to 10:30 pm, and the cash desk closes half an hour before. I've been unable to find anything about being closed on Tuesdays, so you may be in luck.

Prices:

Adults, 8 Euros

Children 17 & under, FREE

Students (18-25), 5 Euros

Groups (up to 20 adults), 6,20 Euros (yes, that comma is deliberate)

Now, if you're looking for the perfect day to visit the Arc, do it on July 14, Bastille Day. The French flag is hung from it and there are parades and stuff. VERY cool.

And just remember, if you're going to Paris, you're taking me with you.

Right?

RIGHT?!?!

Fabulous Travel: Paris, Part 3

2012-02-06T06:00:00.001-07:00

Welcome back to Fabulous Travel!

Things in my life have been kinda crazy lately, so I'm working on doing one post a week for this. I was hoping to go every other day, but I can't keep up that pace. So...

On to the Louvre!

Ah, the Louvre. One of my very most favorite places EVER.

(I'm going to link to the various works, rather than post pictures, due to copyright issues...I couldn't get to my pictures that I took. Alas!)

Home of some of the most amazing works of art ever created...I feel incredibly lucky to have seen them all personally.

Mona Lisa - Leonardo da Vinci

Venus di Milo

Winged Victory of Samothrace

Liberty Leading the People

The Law Code of Hammurabi

The Consecration of the Emperor Napoleon

The Raft of the Medusa

The Rebellious Slave - Michelangelo

Obviously, those are just a few of the many amazing works housed in the Louvre. You could spend days there and not see everything.

Here's what you need to know if you're going to make a trip:

The Louvre is open every day EXCEPT Tuesday. Don't ask me why Tuesday. It's always been that way. Things just shut down on Tuesdays.

On Monday, Thursday, Saturday, and Sunday, the museum is open from 9 am to 6 pm.

On Wednesdays and Fridays, it's open from 9 am to 9:45 pm.

Tickets will run you upwards of 10 Euros. It's worth it, believe me.

Here's some important info directly from the Louvre website:

Admission to the Louvre and the Musée Eugène Delacroix is free for the following visitor categories (valid ID or proof of entitlement required):

- visitors under the age of 18
- 18-25 year-old residents of the EEA (EU, Iceland, Norway, and Liechtenstein)
- teachers of art, art history, and the applied arts
- holders of the French Education Pass (primary and secondary school teachers in French public schools and private schools receiving government subsidies)
- artists affiliated to the Maison des Artistes (in France) or the AIAP (Association Internationale des Arts Plastiques)
- unemployed individuals and visitors receiving benefits (proof of entitlement must be dated within the last six months)
- disabled visitors and their guest or helper

Teachers and young people under 26 years old will receive their free admission ticket upon presentation of a valid ID at the museum ticket windows:
- under-26s: official ID (passport, identity card, ...)
- teachers: Education Pass with the stamp of your school.

Click HERE for an interactive floor plan of the museum. It'll help you plan your trip and make it so that you can see what you really want to see. If you've limited time, be sure to map things out so that you don't spend loads of time wandering around (though there is no wasted time wandering in the Louvre, I promise you).

So, if you're planning a trip to Paris (which you should be!), keep these things in mind. And plan to take me with you. I'm serious.

A great giveaway opportunity...

2012-01-31T12:35:00.002-07:00

Hey fabulous people!

I've just heard about a truly awesome giveaway going on.

Do you like cosmetics?

Yes?!

Fabulous!

Head on over to Victorian Disco to enter the giveaway for some of their fabulous cosmetics. (Turst me...they're fabulous. I have some of the Star Wars collection and I LOVE them.)

Just click HERE to go to the giveaway post!

And the winners are...

2012-01-31T06:00:00.000-07:00

A huge congrats to Angel and Denise for winning the steampunk necklaces!!

Angel was winner #1, so she receives this:

And lucky Denise gets this:

Congrats, ladies! I hope you enjoy them!

Fabulous Travel: Paris, Part 2

2012-01-26T14:33:00.005-07:00

Today, we're devoting a few moments to the fabulous Eiffel Tower, easily the most recognizable Paris landmark. It's one of my most favorite parts of Paris, and a frequent visitor in my dreams. It's funny how many romantic moments can be traced back to the Eiffel Tower.

The Eiffel Tower was designed and built by Alexandre Gustave Eiffel, for the 1889 Exposition Universelle. Interestingly enough, it was only supposed to stand for 20 years and then be demolished. Thank heavens for the experiments that Eiffel was conducting, and the advances in radio technology that the tower helped with!

I just can't picture a Paris without the Eiffel Tower.

Some things to consider, if you're planning a visit:

Tower rates are changing on April 1, 2012. You'll be able to purchase tickets online starting then, which will be a wonderful thing. Now, you pretty much wait in line for hours.

If you want to eat in one of the restaurants, MAKE RESERVATIONS.

Also, remember that the Tower is HIGH. It may not be as warm at the top as it is at the bottom. Bring a jacket, just in case.

Don't forget your camera, either! The views from the top are phenomenal and you'll want to capture them.

One of these years, I want to be in Paris with someone special, complete with a visit to the top of the Eiffel Tower. Maybe then we'll get to recreate THIS:

Giveaway Update

2012-01-17T13:18:00.005-07:00

I've changed up my giveaway a little bit, and need to make the announcement.

Remember how ONE person was going to win one of the necklaces from Clockwork Cathedral?

Well, I've decided that we need TWO winners.

WOO!!

So both of these fabulous necklaces are up for grabs. Because of this, I'm going to send them in the order that random.org picks the winners. So winner #1 will get this:

Winner #2 will get this:

So don't hesitate! Fill out the Rafflecopter form HERE to try to win one of these beauties!!

I was feeling fabulous today...

2012-01-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Don't you just love when that happens?!

Especially when it happens for a really awesome price, by which I mean mostly dirt cheap.

Here's a breakdown:

Sweater & Skirt: Lands End clearance

Belt: Thrifted

Camisole: Victoria's Secret clearance

Boots: Michael Kors (the only part that wasn't dirt cheap)

I do adore feeling fabulous and having great 'ME' days. Hurrah for that today!

You guys. OH MY GOSH

2012-01-10T11:38:00.003-07:00

Lest you forget what's in store for you, I decided to do another post about the giveaway currently going on.

Remember how Michael from Clockwork Cathedral was sending me one? HE SENT TWO!!!

I GOT THEM TODAY!!!

People, they're GORGEOUS.

They're MORE than gorgeous. They're so incredibly fantastic that you'll be scrambling to get your hands on some.

The detail is stunning. It's so incredibly intricate and beautiful. You WANT to own one of these necklaces! They're incredibly well-made and will hold up for a very long time. There's care put into these pieces, I promise you.

So...the winner of the giveaway will get their pick of these gorgeous necklaces. (hello, I'm totally keeping one!!) I don't even care which one you pick because I'm so in love with both of them that I'm jumping up and down at the thought of getting to keep one.

Here's what you're trying for:

Don't forget to enter! Click HERE to fill out the Rafflecopter form.

And click HERE to visit Michael's fabulous Etsy shop.

Fabulous Travel: Paris, Part 1

2012-01-09T06:00:00.001-07:00

Welcome to Part 1 of a many-part series on traveling in Paris! We'll start there and then work our way through France.

Why France, you may ask?

Well, because I happen to love France more than almost anything else in the world and I'd love to share my love with you. Along the way, I hope to dispel some common misconceptions that many people have about the French. I hope to share with you the absolute joy that I found there and I hope that some of you can spend some time in my home away from home.

With that, let's start out in Paris!

We're going to go simple today, with a list of places you simply MUST visit. We'll start with the more obvious touristy things today, and then move into the heart of the city in later posts. I'll also go into greater details on these things later on. I'm almost certain too that I'll have forgotten something. I'll try to go back and pick up anything I've inadvertently left off. For now, just a taste of fabulous before we start hitting the main courses...

So, here we go!

(also, forgive me...my symbols aren't working right now on my computer, so I'm unable to properly accent these things. Alas! I shall update them as soon as I'm able, and in future posts, all will be accented properly.)

1. Eiffel Tower

2. Louvre

3. Centre Pompidou

4. L'Arc de Triomphe

5. Notre Dame

6. Chatelet les Halles (shopping district-amazing!)

7. Musee d'Orsay

8. Montmartre

9. Sacre Coeur

10. La Defense

11. Sainte Chapelle

12. Musee Cluny

13. Musee Marmottan

14. Versailles

15. Chateau de Vincennes

16. Musee Grevin

17. Les Invalides

18. Basilique royale de Saint-Denis

19. L'Opera

20. Pere Lachaise Cemetery

21. L'Orangerie

22. Conciergerie

23. Pantheon

24. le Champs Elysees

25. Catacombs

26. Jardins de Luxembourg

27. Trocadero

28. Champs de Mars

29. Sorbonne

30. La Madeleine

We'll stop there for today. I just want to give you a wee taste of what you've in store for the future. I'll be giving many of these things their own posts, but combining others. I'll also be giving hints on getting discounts, proper phrases to use, foods to try, and such.

Stay tuned for more!

Fabulous Travel series, coming right up!

2012-01-07T06:00:00.003-07:00

I've decided to start a travel series here as well, to offer you all the truly wonderful travel options out there. It'll be quite a long series, I'm sure, but there will be other things interspersed between the travel posts.

I want to share my own experiences, plus the expertise of others on how to travel properly.

So check back in frequently for posts on where to travel, how to do it on a budget, and how to make the most of your time away.

Coming soon!

2012-01-05T10:13:00.002-07:00

There's something brewing here on Living Fabulous...it's going to be...fabulous, of course!

I'm working with a couple of other fashion/beauty blogger friends to create a bi-weekly meme where we'll be bringing you all sorts of fabulous fashion and beauty ideas.

We're excited, so I hope you start getting excited too!

Stay tuned...

And while you're at it, don't forget to enter my giveaway for some fabulous Steampunk jewelry! Click the link in the sidebar and it'll take you right to the post.

My First Giveaway!

2012-01-03T09:00:00.002-07:00

Because it's the New Year and because I like to win things, I'm going to give one lucky reader a chance to win something truly fabulous!!

Remember how we talked with Michael of Clockwork Cathedral about his steampunk jewelry?

And remember how I absolutely LOVE steampunk?

Well, one lucky person is going to WIN one of his fabulous pieces! He's sent me a piece and one lucky reader will win it!

(Thank you so much, Michael & Beth, for participating in this and contributing a prize!)

How, may you ask?

Just fill out the Rafflecopter form below...that's all it takes!

(giveaway is open to residents of the USA and the UK)

Opens January 3 and closes January 31. Good luck!

a Rafflecopter giveaway

Fabulous Interview!

2012-01-01T06:00:00.001-07:00

Hey guys, remember how much I LOVE steampunk ANYTHING? Well, we're lucky today and we have my new favorite steampunk jewelry designer all the way from England here for an interview!

Michael is the chief designer over at Clockwork Cathedral on etsy. If you haven't visited, you really should. There's a link at the bottom of the post, and you can also revisit my steampunk post.

Thanks for joining us and sharing some of your fabulosity, Michael!

Without further ado, let's see what Michael has to say!

How did you get started in jewelry design?

I’ve always loved getting hand-made gifts for birthdays and at Christmas, it makes me feel as if the person has really thought about me. Beth, my wife, is amazing for that sort of thing and always gives beautiful objects that she’s crafted herself: knitted hats, hand-made bags, ipod covers and beautifully drawn cards… my bought presents never seemed to me as good and so, after failing at poetry, papercraft and painting, I decided to try my hand a jewelry making.

What drew you to steampunk?

Ever since reading “The Difference Engine” and the works of Jules Verne and Philip K Dick I’ve had a love for alternate time-lines and especially those that run the industrial age alongside the technological one. Before that even, when I was little, the future to me still looked as though it would be like the imaginings of H.G Wells: brass levers , clockwork and ceramic dials. Wells’ time machine (the brass chair with paper parasol) is definitely still the most technological thing I’ve ever seen.

Where do you find your inspiration?

Often it’s through the constant stream of watch parts, findings and vintage Mechano that pour through my letterbox on a daily basis. Just last week I had seven vintage watches turn up and as usual I began instantly to pry them open to see what sort of movements they had. Inside the first one was a sparkling gold movement, clean as the day it was made, with gleaming red jewels. When I make a piece I try to imagine I am a jeweller in the Neo-Victorian era with a potential customer in mind and it was clear to me that this was meant for an Airship Captain and therefore would need large wings and a definite military feel. Once I’ve got an idea in mind I sit with my many boxes of pieces in front of me and try various combinations until I get the desired result.

What kinds of materials do you use?

Watch movements are the key to all my pieces and they vary in size , shape and colour. I’ve come to think of them as a material in themselves. Alongside those I mostly use brass, copper and bronze as I feel they give the pieces a more aged, authentic look. I've tried with silver and although they look fine I don’t get the same feel of authenticity. I do use silver and gold but generally just for small details.

What's your favorite type of piece to design/make?

When making a military styled piece I find my mind wandering, imagining a character, scenario and a world based around it, those pieces are fun because all that fantasy really helps pass the time. Even so, my favourite pieces are the ones I tend to think of as ‘Looking-Glass’ pieces: ones where I seal a watch movement behind glass or crystal. Whenever I finish one I end up staring into the looking glass from different angles watching how the clockwork seems to change shape and colour in different lights. I love them but find them a little eerie.

How long have you been designing/making jewelry?

Around two years. I started with a few clockwork hairclips for Beth’s birthday and then a necklace for Christmas. When my sister saw them she wanted some and then friends did. It was only after I had supplied all our steampunk loving friends and was going to stop that Beth suggested I try selling them.

Do you do other types as well?

Not yet, steampunk seems to have taken a grip on my creative soul. I have begun branching out of jewellery though. I’ve just bought myself some thick leather, stamping tools and rivets and am going to try making some steampunk cuffs and eye patches.

If you had to pick one piece in your shop as the favorite, which one would it be and why?

Hmm… I would have to go for the ‘Butterfly Heart Looking-Glass’. http://www.etsy.com/listing/88038116/steampunk-necklace-butterfly-heart It is not my most delicate of pieces, nor does it have a range of materials and it could, compared to my other pieces, be called plain. It was an absolute nightmare to make as well, taking by far the longest of all my pieces. What I love about it though is the way the watch movement looks behind the domed glass front, as though it had been trapped like a fly in amber. I also love the unseen back of the piece where the filigree butterfly holds it all together.

Do you do custom design work?

I’ve done a few pieces for friends of friends and have loved doing it, I was asked to create a Nautical-Steampunk bracelet and had great fun trawling through nautical images and re-reading ‘20000 Leagues Under The Sea’ for inspiration. The awesome thing about custom work is that you get a head start on the creative process.

How can our readers get in touch with you?

Best way is through email flynnmichael81@gmail.com but you can contact me through etsy http://www.etsy.com/shop/ClockworkCathedral?ref=si_shop too.

Check back soon, because Michael has graciously agreed to donate a fabulous piece from his shop for one lucky reader!!

Let's talk about something I love...

2011-12-31T06:00:00.003-07:00

And that would be STEAMPUNK.

I truly, absolutely LOVE steampunk.

What is it, you may ask?

Well, it's fabulous, that's for sure.

Here's the definition from Dictionary.com:

steam·punk

[steem-puhngk]

noun

a subgenre of science fiction and fantasy featuringadvanced machines and other technology based on steampower of the 19th century and taking place in a recognizablehistorical period or a fantasy world.

a subculture inspired by this literary and film subgenre: the fashions and gadgets of steampunk.

Why do I love steampunk? Well, because it evokes images of a bygone era that I would have loved to live in. I'd have been in my element, I think. It's just that super-graceful era and I can imagine all the fabulous gadgets going so well. (Probably because I read a ton of steampunk and it just all gels so perfectly in my head.)

Some of my favorite steampunk books: The Leviathan trilogy by Scott Westerfeld, The Parasol Protectorate by Gail Carriger, The Infernal Devices series by Cassandra Clare, The Steampunk Chronicles by Kady Cross. They're awesome books and you should totally try them out.

But most of all, I LOVE steampunk jewelry. It's just awesome. Fabulous. Amazing. I definitely MUST own some. In fact, I have just the thing: here's my new favorite etsy shop, Clockwork Cathedral. You'll want to check it out. It's fabulous! (and you'll also want to keep an eye on things, because there is more to come from Clockwork Cathedral!)

So without further ado, here are some of my very most favorite steampunk images:

Also, THIS:

There's more steampunk goodness coming up soon! Stay tuned!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 24

2011-12-29T06:00:00.000-07:00

Let’s get Romantic!

What to wear on a romantic date…

Dark Jeans and a Sexy Top

Without question the most flattering color of jeans on a woman of any size is navy. Thus, when you are dressing for a casual romantic date, dark jeans and a sexy top can be a winning combination. Be sure to look for jeans which flatter your figure shape. Those who are larger on the bottom should look for jeans with a slight stretch in the fabric and straight or slightly flared legs. Remember, if your jeans are more fitted you should wear a more flowing top. This outfit is ideal for a date at a casual restaurant, a bar, a recreational event or other casual events.

Flirty Dress to the Knee

If your personality is flirty and fun, consider wearing a flirty dress on your romantic date. If it’s the first date you will show your date you love to have fun, through your fashion choice! After all, dating is all about self-expression and finding someone who cherishes you for who you are. When choosing flirty dresses, look for those which fall to the knee, no shorter. Plus size ladies always look slimmer with a skirt which skims the top of middle of the knee. Look for dresses with darting under the bust to draw attention to the smallest part of your upper body.

Little Black Dress

If you have no idea where your date is taking you when going out, a little black dress will never fail you. Black dresses are the perfect solutions for any event. Whether the date is casual or elegant, a little black dress will allow you to quickly adapt. Think about answering the door in your dress and informing your date you’re almost ready. Then quickly examine what he’s wearing. If he’s dressed elegantly, quickly add some sparkle to your outfit with high heels and elegant jewels. If he’s more casual, think about adding causal jewelry (silver or turquoise often work well with black dresses). Thus, you’ll be appropriately dressed no matter what he shows up in or where he takes you.

Wide Leg Slacks and a Baby Doll Top

Wide leg slacks are a full figured girl’s best friend! So, when you are dressing for your romantic date, consider grabbing them for comfort and style. To make them more romantic and feminine, add a baby doll top. Baby doll tops are great for hiding a rounder stomach area. They are highly fashionable and help draw attention to your bust and face area.

Tasteful V-neckline Tops

Women who are short should always seek out v-neck tops when dressing for a date. A v-neck automatically creates a longer visual line on your body. It makes you appear taller and makes the neck area look longer and leaner.

If you're so inclined, feel free to comment about date outfits that knocked it out of the park. I'd love to hear your stories!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 23

2011-12-27T06:00:00.000-07:00

It’s a shoe fetish, I’m sure of it! I know I have one...and I bet half of you do too!

Fitness and Walking Shoes

When you buy athletic shoes, it's important to consider not only the overall fit, but also what you will be using them for. Running and walking shoes should have a rocker sole that helps your foot roll forward naturally. Plenty of cushion and good traction are especially important in running shoes. For women with wide feet, finding wide width athletic shoes is vital, because narrow shoes affect the way your feet move. Improperly fitting shoes can spoil your natural balance and cause foot, leg and joint problems as your body tries to make up for the unnatural movement of the foot. Having enough room inside your shoes for the sides of your feet and toes is a must, especially when it comes to athletic shoes. You may be able to limp along in cute shoes that don't fit too well when you're at work or out on a date, but taking the wrong shoes to aerobics or the basketball court will not only spoil your fun, but may cause injury.

Black Heels

Classic black pumps are a wardrobe must for every woman, and fortunately, you can find them in wide widths from established shoe companies. Any woman with wide feet can tell you that shopping in a shoe megastore for wide width shoes is an impossible dream: what we lose in convenience, we make up for in quality, as manufacturers of wide width shoes create high quality classic black pumps. There are a few musts for classic black pumps: they should be leather, or possibly suede; the heels should not be too low or too high—one to two inches is the correct height. Finally, the style of the show should not be trendy—no strange toe box shapes or odd cutouts are permissible. The point of the classic black pump is, like all wardrobe staples, that it can go anywhere, anytime. When you don't know what to wear, you'll wear these.

Strappy Heels

Strappy heels are a must-have for evening wear, when pumps are too staid for a truly elegant look. You can find them in toeless models, but the classic evening black heels usually have a toe box and a thin strap across the ankle. The strap is more than decorative: it helps support the ankle and stabilize the foot, preventing slips or twists from an unsupported narrow heel. Especially for women with wider feet, high heels can put stress on the feet: make sure you get the best possible fit in your strappy evening heels. While many women rage against high heels, strappy evening black heels make your legs look wonderful: pair them with a long, slit skirt and sheer hose for legs that go on forever. Keep the look slender by avoiding heels that are square or chunky: look for stilettos, kitten style heels or other slim features.

Now, if you have cankles, DO NOT wear a shoe with an ankle strap. It won’t look good, I promise.

Pumps

A pair of neutral colored heels are useful, but you rarely hear them called sexy, and why is that? The fact is, that nude or light brown heels look wonderful with pastel skirt suits, pale evening clothes, or for dressing up casual clothes like khaki skirts. Neutral colored heels are good in the evening with jeans: black heels look either too teenaged or too bad-girl to really pull off a good look. A pair of heels in nude or brown look grown-up without seeming stuffy; dressed up without being too dressy. There may be times when you want a dressier pair of neutral colored heels: in that case, buy them in suede or dupioni silk for a drop-dead gorgeous pair of shoes.

Casual Flats

Maybe you live in sneakers, but if you're dressing up just a wee bit more, other styles of casual flat shoes can perk up your wardrobe without wearing out your feet. Loafers, with or without the pennies are great options for jeans or khaki pants and skirts; they don't have any ankle support to speak of, but if you get a good pair, you'll find you wear them again and again on those occasions when you aren't getting fancy but still want to look nice. Moccasins are strictly weekend wear, but they're also fun shoes that look fine with jeans. Look for moccasins with a good sole: some brands are thin on the bottom and that can tire your feet and make your back hurt. Other casual shoes include mary janes, which are ideal for wide width shoes because of the square toe box and the comfy, forgiving shape.

Sandals

Flat summer sandals are good for the beach, shopping and even the casual workplace. Sometimes it's hard to find cute sandals in wide widths: it seems like sandals manufacturers believe that wide width shoes must have extra-wide straps, and that can make them look clunky. But if you go to the online stores that specialize in wide width shoes, you'll have better luck finding sexy flat summer sandals that won't make you look like you're wearing bicycle tires on your feet. Look for flat summer sandals in shades of brown—from beige to deep sienna—in leather or suede. If you want extra ankle support, choose sandals with straps behind the heel instead of mules or slides.

(NO ankle straps for cankles. It’s just a fact of life.)

Boots

Wide width boots are probably the best footwear buy for women with wide feet. More boot makers are coming out with wide width boots in so many styles and colors that it's becoming a real pleasure to shop for them. Look for them not only in shoe-only stores, but in plus size women's stores; Silhouettes has a luscious selection of boots and shoes. Let's talk about boots: sure, you can get them in leather or suede, but you can also find them in corduroy, microseude and even velvet. Wear long boots with skirts either short or long and short boots with jeans. Boots go with practically everything, but if you're really dressing up, wear an elegant evening shoe instead. But remember, for any place but the opera, there is a boot to take you where you want to go. Wide width boots are probably the best footwear buy for women with wide feet. More boot makers are coming out with wide width boots in so many styles and colors that it's becoming a real pleasure to shop for them. Look for them not only in shoe-only stores, but in plus size women's stores; Silhouettes has a luscious selection of boots and shoes. Let's talk about boots: sure, you can get them in leather or suede, but you can also find them in corduroy, microseude and even velvet. Wear long boots with skirts either short or long and short boots with jeans. Boots go with practically everything, but if you're really dressing up, wear an elegant evening shoe instead. But remember, for any place but the opera, there is a boot to take you where you want to go.

I LIVE in my boots. I have so many pairs that I can hardly keep track of them, and I wear them with everything. They’re about the most versatile thing in my closet!

Fun Shoes

Every woman has to own at least one pair of unique shoes that are just for fun. You know the ones: you don't wear them all the time, but when you do, it's special. When they finally wear out, you feel despondent until you replace them. Fabulous shoes have a way of making dressing up fun: it may be a pair of pink slides, mules with kitten heels and just a little bit of marabou, or stilettos in bright red leather. Do you have a fantasy of the perfect shoe? Chances are, it exists, and it's waiting for you. You may thrill to a pair of velvety flip-flops in sea green, or spend an unconscionable large chunk of your paycheck on the perfect leather boots—we all love shoes! Life is short—get the shoes you love, and wear them!

House Slippers

For hanging around the house, nothing beats a pair of comfortable slippers. But please, oh please don't buy your slippers at the local superstore and then schlep around in a ratty old robe! If you're going to slouch on the couch, do it in style with slippers that are nothing short of adorable. And don't tell me that your wide feet are to blame: there are loads of cute slippers out there in your size. We're talking leopard spotted or paisley ballet slippers in fluffy fabric; slides made of terry cloth in aquamarine; thongs in plush velvet or bright bandana fabrics. Look at silk mules for an elegant slipper to match your new silk robe. Go ahead—stay home today!

Ballet Flats

Ballet flats were reintroduced as daytime footwear a couple of years ago, and they're still wildly popular. Thanks to that popularity, they're available in more fabrics, so you can find a pair of trendy ballet flats for nearly every outfit. By their nature, ballet flats tend to be somewhat casual, because they have no heels. But they are adorable in tweed to match solid career separates, and they come with little black ribbons purely for ornamental purposes. You can find them in patent leather or nubuck; with cutouts or as plain jane as you like; there are even some summertime models in raffia. And, fashion being what it is, you will even find shoes called trendy ballet flats—with heels!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 22

2011-12-23T06:00:00.000-07:00

The coating makes all the difference

Let's talk about coats, huh? So it's winter now and you probably already have your coat. If not, however, listen up! I've got some great tips for fashionable coats coming at you.

Pea Coats

Wool Pea Coats are available in a world of colors—from pastels to the traditional black or navy blue. Look for a tightly knit, thick wool and a shape that skims the hips. Satin lining is the traditional best, and should be soft and lustrous. Look for buttons in pewter or other shiny metal, but if you find the plus size coat you love most has plastic buttons, you can always replace them once you get the coat home. Find metal military buttons at surplus stores or look for vintage glass buttons for a totally unique fashion statement.

Rain Jackets

The best rain jackets are made of Gore-tex, which in a miracle known only to the manufacturers, keeps out water while letting in the air. Breathable fabric means you're less likely to end up damp from the inside even when it's wet outdoors. If staying dry is important to you, get a rain jacket with a full hood, and with zipper pockets to keep your belongings dry. If you live where the weather tends to be cold as well as wet, opt for a rain jacket with a zip out liner. For a great plus size rain jacket, try it on and zip it all the way up, noting where the bottom of the jacket falls and how the overall lines look. Choose a jacket that's slimming, with a longer line and hidden pockets.

Fleece Jackets

Fleece jackets are great for keeping warm when the weather is icy or when the wind is blowing, Available in all sorts of plus size styles and colors, and as washable as the day is long, fleece's terrific lightness makes it portable yet cozy. Don't fall for the dictum that black makes you look skinny: look for light, bright colors, with contrast on the inside of jacket and cuffs. Pay attention to lines, choosing a jacket with seams that curve ever so slightly inward, indicating a feminine waistline. With all of today's style choices, there's no reason to look bunchy in fleece!

Denim Jackets

The denim jean jacket is a must have for every full figure wardrobe: like the ubiquitous blue jean, the denim jacket made its appearance in the '60s and has never been replaced. Shopping for denim can be tricky though, since even big name companies like Levis are making cheaper brands for the mega store market. Although a denim jacket might have the right label, always check for quality: seams should be straight and of strong thread; hems should be even; buttonholes should be unfrayed unless you're buying a pre-frayed jacket. You'll find a million denim jacket styles; for your basic wear-everywhere denim, skip the rhinestone butterfly and opt for plain fabric and well-fit lines that will last forever.

Leather Jackets

Leather jackets, like diamonds, can be cheap or cost the very earth; it's all up to you, the buyer. The quality of the leather varies depending on its manufacture, with some leathers being very thin and made for coats that tend to go from the car to the mall and back again. If you're looking for a leather jacket to really keep you warm, consider a bomber jacket or a leather or suede trench coat. Great plus size leather jackets tend to be thicker, lined with excellent fabric and build like a brick motorcycle. Strong, straight seams, smooth, even leather finish and the perfect fit are important, because leather lasts for ages! Leather does take special care; it doesn't like to get rained on, so you may have to treat it with waterproofing oils if you want to wear it everywhere. But hey, for a great coat, what's a little maintenance?

Long Winter Coats

A long winter plus size coat can make the difference on windy, icy days when you have to choose between a shopping trip and staying home on the couch. You'd be surprised at how much warmer you stay when your legs have another layer of thick, soft fabric around them! A long winter coat also looks elegant, unlike some of the chubby quilted down coats that keep you warm but at a stylistic cost by making your look like a large marshmallow. Choose a lined trench in your favorite color and a soft wool, and pin your best brooch on the lapel. Look for a coat with deep, slant pockets and a tailored hemline for a slimming look. You'll find yourself wearing this coat everywhere and will hate to put it away come spring.

Cropped Jacket

A cropped jacket looks especially nice with pants or full figure skirts that fit at the natural waist, and there are so many kinds of cropped jacket to choose from, the most difficult thing will be deciding on the one you want. The mistake most often made with cropped jackets is wearing them with cropped pants; in fact, you want the extra length to show off the shorter jacket, which will hit you above the hip. These jackets can be tricky, though, if they aren't cut right. Look for slim zippers and inward-curving lines, made in fabrics with a little Lycra or Spandex stretch, but make sure your purchase the correct size. A crop jacket that looks to small can look like a kid’s jacket!

Classic Blazer

The classic blazer is ideal for any time you want to be taken seriously—say at a job interview. A blazer should never be trendy; look for solid colors, long sleeves and natural fabrics—wool, linen or cotton. You can match your classic blazer with a skirt and pumps, or wear it with pants and low heels. If you want to be casual but have some style, you can wear your blazer on the weekend with your favorite pair of plus size jeans and jewelry for a dressier look. Quality in a blazer means it will last; thicker, tightly-woven fabric, nice lining, well designed buttons and cuffs and hems that hang perfectly. Some blazers are being made with a little stretch and more tailored, feminine-figured lines, and those are fine. A well made blazer should also have proper seaming that looks like two backwards “C” shapes on the back – this creates a flattering womanly figure shape.

Stylish Trench

Would Casablanca have been as romantic without the trench coats in the misty rain? Who knows, but we all know that when it's raining or chilly, nothing beats a loosely belted trench. Classic colors are beige and gray, but trenches are popping up everywhere, in pastels and bright colors, in microfiber and the classic gabardine. Plus size trench coats are double-breasted, with buttons and a belt. The belt helps create a flattering natural waistline and hourglass shape that is flattering on more body types. Trench coats are slimming in style and elegant in look; you can wear yours to meet your lover at an abandoned airport, or maybe just take the wintry walk to Starbucks for your favorite latte.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 21

2011-12-21T06:00:00.000-07:00

Disclaimer: If I happen to have any male readers here, stop reading now because we're talking about bras. There's nothing here for you. Goodbye.

Let’s talk about the girls!

Buy a bra that fits correctly. If you haven't had a fitting in a while, go for it. A proper-fitting bra makes your clothes fit so much better.

For many women, the frustration of bra shopping prevents them from entering a lingerie department until their bras are busting at the seams. Picking a plus-size bra can be particularly frustrating because of the lack of options. In many stores, there simply are not very many attractive options when it comes to plus-size bras. It is, however, still possible to find a pretty plus-size bra to fit any shape.

Measure under your bust line, around the fullest part of your bust and jot down the measurements.

Determine your band size using the underbust measurement: if the number is even add 4 inches; if the number is odd add 5 inches.

Find your cup size using your bust measurement. If the number is the same as your band size, you wear an A. If the number is 1 inch greater than your band size, you wear a B. If the number is 2 inches greater than your band size, you wear a C. Continue until your reach the appropriate cup size.

Go to a specialty shop or visit an Internet site that specializes in plus sizes. Try on the bras in your size and one size larger, since not all companies size exactly the same way. I get all my bras from Lane Bryant because I am, ahem, busty, and I find that they’re amazing. Plus, they usually run specials where you buy one you get one half off or free.

Tips:

Do not feel bad if your cup size isn't what you want it to be. You need to find the right fit, not the fit you wish was right.

Lane Bryant has a wide selection of plus-size bras.

Avoid department stores since they usually lack attractive plus-size bras.

How to Buy a Bra that Fits Your Shape:

Most women have a difficult time finding a bra that fits their shape. According to a recent study, 80 percent of women do not even wear their correct bra size. Here is a simple guide on how to buy the perfect bra for your figure.

First, begin by measuring your rib cage at the point where your bra would sit. Tighten the tape to where it is comfortable for you and take the measurement. This is the number part of the bra size. It is better to let someone else measure you, but if you are all you got, go for it.

Next, you will need to take the measurements for your cup size. Place the measuring tape over the fullest part of your breast, and tighten the measuring tape only tight enough to be comfortable. The difference between the second measurement and the first measurement determines your cup size. A negative measurement is AAA. A difference of one inch is an A cup, two inches is a B cup, three inches is a C cup and so on.

Using the measurements you just took, pick out several different bras to try on. Adjust the shoulder straps as necessary, and try the different bra styles on. A bra should not be uncomfortable to wear, and should not require further adjustments.

Try on several different styles of bra. What works for a smaller bra size will not work for a larger cup size. Find the bras that fit your breasts. And remember, not all bras are the same.

Types of Bras:

Full-figure everyday support

The everyday support bra is a wardrobe staple; most women probably have several everyday support bras and a few luxury or date night bras to keep things interesting. But the fact is, we're not always that fascinated with keeping things interesting: we want to look smooth, pulled together and somewhat dressed. An everyday support bra doesn't make big statements, but it does what it's supposed to do: keeps things somewhat pushed up, separated just enough for definition and supports the back and shoulders. Especially for plus size women, an everyday support bra is a must-have for the wardrobe.

Sports Bras

A sports bra isn't just for sports! These comfortable, supportive bras are perfect for women who want a smooth look under their clothes, but you aren't looking for a lot of frills. If you have sensitive skin, you may have found that the lace, fasteners and straps on most bras irritate your skin, causing itching or redness and discomfort. Since sports bras tend to be made of cotton, spandex, Lycra or microfiber, they are especially nice to the skin. Microfiber is a wonderful fabric; it moves easily with you and it breathes. Wide straps and T-back or racer back sports bras provide plenty of back support without annoying underwires during workouts.

Sexy Bras!

A sexy push-up bra is guaranteed to make the most of your bustline, enhancing your figure and maybe even your confidence. The right push-up bra can change a dull dress into a fantastic one by altering your natural curves: a higher bust means an elongated, slimmer looking waistline. A sexy push-up bra is a date-night item: don't settle for a plain one! Look for push-up or "balcony" bras in lace and satin; you can also find models in demi-cup or with a demi-cup topped with lace. Push-up bras often have wider set straps, to provide added support for your back: they are ideal for tops that bare the collar bones. Whatever your size, make sure that your bra fits perfectly. A sexy push-up bra only works if it fits like a glove!

Strapless, Halter, or Convertible

The strapless convertible halter bra is a must-have for any wardrobe that includes backless or strapless tops or dresses. A convertible bra has straps that can be removed: many of them can also be worn with the straps criss-crossed in back. Although it may be tempting to wear a strapless dress without a bra, going braless drags down the overall shape and can turn a nice dress into something frumpy. A strapless convertible bra solves the problem, and you can attach the straps to turn it into a "regular" bra anytime you need one. In a way, it's surprising that all bras aren't convertible; it's a clothing option that always makes sense!

Bridal Bras

Let's be honest: bridal bras don't offer anything new in the way of support or design, but they do come in wonderful colors, styles and fabrics designed to make you feel like a princess underneath your wedding gown. Or maybe a princess who's about to be very, very bad! Bridal bras can be as modest as any sports bra, but when you're attending your wedding, bra styles tend to be more—outgoing. The trick is to find a wedding bra that won't be scratchy; they tend to be covered with lace and maybe even sequins, which can be tough on tender skin, especially if it's mashed up against you inside a tight bodiced bridal gown. Look for a bridal bra in ivory or white microfiber, and make sure any lace overlays the microfiber on the bra or straps.

Maternity & Nursing Bras

It's well worth it to spend more on a nursing bra because it has so much work to do. After giving birth, your breasts will be as heavy and as tender as they ever will be, so make sure to get a nursing bra that combines serious support with total comfort. You don't necessarily need a lot of boning or underwire if the straps and overall construction of he nursing bra contributes to its holding power: look for wide straps, a soft, thick band at the midriff, and soft cups. Most nursing bras unhook at the strap, but some have a pocket in the center of the cup that can be opened and closed without having to reach up to your shoulder. This solution can make it easier to get ready to nurse while holding your baby. By the way; nursing bras can still be sexy: look for ones that make you feel pretty.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 20

2011-12-19T06:00:00.000-07:00

Some wardrobe must-haves:

Fitted Jacket:

A fitted jacket should hit just above your hips. You don’t want one hitting right in the middle of your bum-no need to put a horizontal line there!

A great tailored jacket -- fitted to show off feminine curves, not a baggy masculine style -- will pair with everything from work trousers to jeans.

A jacket adds structure to your figure: gives curvy girls more angular lines, creates waistlines for boyish figure types and smooths out lumps and bumps for all shapes.

You can choose traditional fall jacket fabrics like tweed, corduroy, denim or menswear plaids; you can also go luxe with velvet, leather, brocade.

White Shirt:

Sounds basic, but a crisp, long-sleeve white shirt is a building block of your fall wardrobe.

The varieties are endless -- cotton with stretch, fitted silhouettes, cuff and sleeve details, collar variations -- but they all work under everything from cardigans to jackets or on their own with wide-leg trousers.

Black Pantsuit:

Pantsuits may be the ultimate power suit for the working woman, but they also pull their weight after hours when paired with a silky cami and heels.

A solid black pantsuit is the most flattering (head-to-toe monochromatic color) and the most classic. Look for a fabric with drape -- nothing too stiff or shiny -- preferably in wool (or wool with some stretch for comfort).

Stick with a simple one-button jacket for timeless appeal.

Turtleneck Sweater:

Neckline trends come and go -- cowl necks, plunging Vs, henleys -- but a turtleneck sweater has earned its place as a classic. Here's why:

The turtleneck brings your face into focus.

A mock turtleneck is a good option if you don't like the bulk of a true turtleneck (it's the same height, only the fabric doesn't fold back over).

Stick with cozy, touchable materials for your turtleneck sweater because anything itchy or scratchy is unbearable on your sensitive neck area.

The black turtleneck is the ultimate classic because it creates a blank palette to show off wonderful necklaces, cuff bracelets or just a pretty face.

Cashmere Wrap (or other nice looking fabric):

The ridiculous trendiness of the pashmina shawl a few years ago almost killed out this wonderful classic. But there's a reason that timeless fashion pieces retain their popularity: in this case, the cashmere shawl is the only coverup that you can stash in a tote, use on the airplane as a luxe blanket, and wear over jeans or a little black dress. It's not only chic and versatile, it's dramatic.

Menswear Print pants:

Menswear prints -- plaids, chalk stripes, houndstooth checks -- are a perennial fall favorite that translate very well to trousers. Pair with everything from a solid shirt to a twinsuit.

Tall Boots:

Knee-high boots make great sense for fall because they let you get more wear out of everything from jeans to skirts.

Tuck in slim trousers for a young look or layer on opaque tights with a skirt or dress to keep out the chill.

Choose a mid-heel height for the most trend-proof look (something 2 inches or less).

Brown boots are a great choice if you wear lots of denim; black pairs with almost everything.

Pearls:

Feminine pearls are the perfect trend-proof accessory to compliment the more structured styles of fall. Wear gray pearls with a white shirt and black, wide-leg pants for a sexy hostess look; or choose layers of creamy white pearls worn with a simple black sheath dress for a perfect cocktail dress look.

Leather Tote:

Bags get bigger with cooler weather because you have more to carry (umbrellas, wraps, hats).

The leather tote doesn't have to be boring -- there are logoed styles, patent, exotic skins, quilting, bold hardware, bright colors and much more -- but the most classic looks have a ladylike feel to them, a clean rectangular shape, and understated luxury.

Unlike an in-today/out-tomorrow "It" bag, the leather tote will be your faithful friend for years. This is one splurge where you'll get lots of mileage on your investment.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 19

2011-12-17T06:00:00.000-07:00

Other body types and how to love them…

There isn’t as much information available on the less talked about body types, so this will be a bit shorter. But it’s still great information for those who fit into one of these categories!

The Skittle (otherwise known as a bowling pin)

You know the Skittle…the old-fashioned sort that has a long, slim top half which widens dramatically at the bottom. You are not the classic Pear. She has a saddlebag or two and a big bum. With you, the problem lies a bit further down. It’s the thighs, baby!

You’re convinced that is all anyone notices about you. Covering them up has become your obsession. In your efforts to hide those thighs, you have obliterated your entire body! Not good, sister! Gone are your shapely ankles, your little waist, your nicely toned arms. A lower half is so much easier to disguise than a bulky bust or billowing belly.

Skinnier torsos allow for elegant garments that have no need to hide lumps or bumps, and generally one’s bottom and thighs spend a lot more time concealed beneath tables and steering wheels than upper body parts.

Key Shapes for Skittles:

Any verticle pattern on your bottom half will help to slim the appearance of your thighs. Broad lapels on coats and jackets draw the eye to your shoulders and show a shapely torso. Because your legs tend to be shorter, you’ll want a high heel.

A-line skirts are key yet again. It’s the universally flattering shape and will camouflage those thighs better than Granny’s old sweat pants. (Which we all know offer no camouflage at all, yet somehow our brains say they do.)

The Vase

Take an hourglass and stretch her a bit and there you are…a Vase is born. You are an easier shape to dress than an Hourglass because you don’t go in and out so much, and you have a flatter bottom. Most Vases feel differently though.

You feel that your boobs are disproportionately large and your tummy has an amoeba-like ability to change shape. You aren’t thrilled about the size of your arms either. To make matters worse, no one sympathizes! They still see the Playboy Bunny. Ever if you are a large Vase, you still have the proportions of a seriously sexy woman. Size is not an issue here.

Styles for you are specific. Sharp, tight tailoring. Think Moneypenny on Viagra. That’s your idea look. Stick to a wide, scooped neckline, which helps to balance your chest with the rest of your body. Curvy girls need curvy shoes too…a nicely shaped high heel will do well. Wear a single-button tailored jacket and your narrowest area will be nicely emphasized. A-line again for skirts, and nicely tailored pants will complete a classy look.

The Lollipop

Endless legs and big boobs…sounds like a male fantasy, doesn’t it? Or maybe a well-tuned Ferrari? Yeah. We all know someone who ‘suffers’ from this top-heaviness. (me, I’m top heavy, but then I’m bottom heavy too.)

While evening gowns are generally made in Lollipop heaven, regular daywear is a tad more problematic. Doesn’t Scarlett Johanssen look just a tad awkward out of a gown? Really, I think she should just wear evening gowns all the time to avoid the awkwardness of daywear. But then we have the problem of going grocery shopping in a Chanel…oh wait. I digress. Sorry!

So our main problem with you buxom babes is that sleeves are too short and tops are too tight. Add high-waisted trousers, and you look like Bambi when he first walked on the ice. Sigh. The uncoordination hurts.

Your shoulders are not broad enough to support your bosom with ease, so you hunch over and destroy the illusion of perfect posture. You need to pay attention to that. Posture is one key to looking fab. That said, once you learn the art of balancing your silhouette, I can assure you that you’ll be a knockout!

Now, your shoes should be slim-heeled to reflect your great legs. Buy dresses with gathers at the waist, and it’ll draw eyes there instead of your prodigious chest. Wear a flared trouser to balance out your chest so that you don’t look top heavy.

The Bell

In your teens and 20’s you were a small lady with a nice round bottom, right? What happens to you later is the hateful middle-age spread. Your lower half become disproportionately large. Just a fact of life for so many petite women.

Please, please please. DO NOT DISAPPEAR INTO TAPERED, ELASTIC WAIST PANTS! Any sexiness you may have had will wave bye-bye the minute you step into those horrors. Stop. Just stop right there. You are still a pretty, petite woman who can dust off your skirts and dresses and wear beautifully tailored clothing.

Create a broader shape on top with a funnel-shaped coat, and go for a thigh-skimming caftan in the summer months. If you wear a nice cone-shaped heel, it’ll help balance out your bottom half. And, what’s the magic word? That’s right! A-line skirts!

The Goblet

Looking at your silhouette, a classic crystal Goblet comes to mind. Heavy and square above and balanced on an elegant stem. With you, your trouble is at the top. Oh yes. You have big boobs, a generous tummy, and a nice broad back.

But don’t look there, look down at your gorgeous legs! They’re the stuff that high heels and fishnets dream of at night. Well, they would if they could dream. Feeling fabulous is all about making those stems look even longer than they already are. You can glide into most slacks and will be able to show off your glorious gams into old age. Your shapely ankles will last longer than that diamond heirloom you’re sporting (and some would argue that they’re more valuable!).

A deeper, wider V-neck halves the area of your chest, making it look smaller. An a-line skirt (you knew that was coming, right?!) strokes your legs as the flaring hemline balances your top. Those hot high heels that you’ve been saving? Break them out and shout praises to your legs!

The Cello

Your shoulders are broad, your boobs are big, and your bum and thighs are in a class of their own. Honey, you are all woman! You’re the refined, beautifully tuned Cello.

It may be that on occasion, you feel conspicuous when compared to your petite friends. That’s okay, you ARE conspicuous! But in a good way. Just be you, be fabulous, and you will turn heads everywhere you go.

You’ll never be one for wispy tops over tight jeans (thank you, by the way!). Luckily, you have the gorgeous bone structure to carry off your well-endowed features with grace and ease. Stand tall and strut your stuff, honey!

A wide, but not plunging, V-neck works wonders with your bosom. It’ll give shape and definition. A flared skirt that is fitted on top will hold your tummy and bottom in. Really, it cuts your bum in half! Wear shoes that support the size of your thighs while making the most of your fabulous ankles. Wedges are perfect!

The Brick

Wow. With all the terms out there, they couldn’t pick a better one than “the Brick?” Really? Yeah, that illustrates just how hard it is to dress this type. But, despair not! It IS possible to still look fab!

Your problem is that from behind, you look masculine. A boyish, flat bum, no waist, straight up and down legs, and broad shoulders that would make an Olympic swimmer jealous. There’s a very good chance that your clothing reflects that and looks slightly masculine.

Your transformation is going to be profound, and I can’t wait to see pics!

With tops, pick something that highlights the feminine roundness of your neck. A sequined collar, a chunky necklace, ruffles…all will add curves. An a-line skirt (say it with me!) or asymmetrically pleated skirt will create the illusion of a waist, and rounded toes on your shoes will add to the curves we’re creating.

Now that you’ve got suggestions for each body type, I’ll be expecting to hear back on your marvelous transformations from granny-sweats to fabulous finds!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 18

2011-12-15T06:00:00.000-07:00

Juicy, delicious, and totally fab!

Fashion Tips & Tricks for the Pear-shaped woman

Balance your body type with stripes, dark pants, and more!

So, you inherited the hips your mother and grandmother have. Instead of worrying about your shape, learn to embrace it. Triangle-shaped gals have a smaller upper body and tend to be a bit larger in the hip, rear and thigh area. The good news is curves are in! The bad news is many pear shaped beauties have no idea how to accentuate their “good areas” and balance their body shape overall. With a few simple style and clothing tips, triangle-shaped women can look and feel terrific!

You’re the exception to stripes

Have you ever heard women over a size 2 should never wear stripes, especially of the horizontal variety? Well, you’re the exception to this rule! The truth is when you’re pear shaped you need to create a visual effect that adds size or weight to the upper half of your body. Adding visual weight may sound crazy when you’re trying to look as flattering as possible. However, it’s all about proportion and since your bottom half is a bit larger you need to add visual weight to your upper half to balance your overall shape. By balancing your overall shape your entire body will appear well-proportioned and instantly slimmer.

A-line skirts work wonders!

Women who are born with a pear shape should own at least a few A-line dresses or skirts. A-line dresses and skirts instantly offer balance and will accentuate your small waist while slimming your larger bottom half. When choosing a skirt, be sure to pick one that sits at the knee. The longer length will not only allow the item to be appropriate for many settings (work, home, leisure) but it will also conceal wider hips and thighs. Pair this type of skirt with a fitted shirt that offers a strong shoulder.

It’s all about the pants

If you’d rather be dead than wear a skirt, don’t despair! There are loads of terrific pants and jeans you can wear to flatter your shape. When looking for the perfect pant, be sure to stick with dark colors. Slacks in colors of navy, black or dark grey are ideal. If you’re searching for jeans, be sure to stick with dark washed colors. No matter what dark color you go with, be sure to choose a pant with a straight leg. Look for a pair with a slight flare at the bottom for ultimate proportion control. Most brands refer to this style of pant as a “bootcut” option. The straight leg will elongate your bottom half while the slight flair will balance out your shape. The result will show a well defined waist and a longer look overall.

Detailed pieces are ideal

Pear shaped gals most often want the eye of others to be drawn upward, toward the neckline and facial area. This is because the upper body is much smaller than the lower body. To do this without much effort, choose tops and blouses with extra details. There’s no need to go overboard, but a top with a few tacks, ribbons or designs are great.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 17

2011-12-13T06:00:00.000-07:00

Oh so sexy and timely, too!

(I like this one the best because I'm an hourglass)

Hourglass Figure Style Advice:

What makes an hourglass shape…hourglass?

While most men claim an hourglass figure is the ideal womanly shape, it can be difficult to find flattering clothing if you’re blessed with the shape of a Roman goddess. An hourglass body shape is one in which the shoulder and bust area is proportional to the hip area. The waist is clearly defined and is much smaller than the bust and hip in circumference. The reality is most women who identify as being an hour glass shape aren’t a size 2. Thus, it can be difficult to enhance the beauty of their shape while trying to hide their “problem areas”. However, plus size and full figure women can learn to balance their shape with fashion tips and tricks.

Balancing an Hourglass Shape

The trick to balancing an hourglass shape is to create perfect proportions with clothing. It’s important to define slimmer areas and draw attention away from larger areas. In addition, balancing an hourglass shape requires a woman to fall in love with her curves. She must never want to hide them and instead accentuate them to their fullest potential with fashion.

Pencil Skirts Offer Office Solutions

Many women with an hourglass shape often look confused when wearing work attire. At least, they look like they were confused when they dressed themselves before work! The truth is it can be too easy to quickly throw on a simple straight-lined dress each day and head to the office. However, if you’re an hourglass gal it’s essential you pick items that work with your body type and not against it. A dress without any apparent shape will leave you looking much larger than you actually are because it won’t accentuate your womanly curves. Instead, you may end up looking like you’re wearing a long paper bag.

Instead of reaching for the boring dress without a definite shape, consider opting for a pencil skirt. One that hits mid-knee is ideal for any office environment. Think of choosing on that doesn’t hug your body but instead skims it nicely. It should fit well, allowing your natural curves to shine though. One trick to knowing if your skirt fits well or not is to notice how it performs while you’re sitting. If it bunches up tightly while sitting, it’s too small. Pick pencil skirts that are in black, brown, blue, gray or small pinstripes. Pair it will a button-down silk blouse and a skinny belt for ultimate fashion flair.

Bootcut Pants Can Balance Beautifully

If skirts aren’t your “thing” and you’d rather opt for pants, don’t reach for the first pair on the rack. Instead, choose a pant with a straight leg. Look for a pair with a slight flare at the bottom for ultimate proportion control. Most brands refer to this style of pant as a “bootcut” option. The straight leg will elongate your bottom half while the slight flair will balance out your bottom areas with your shoulders and bust width. The result will show a well defined waist and a longer look overall.

Well Tailored Pieces are ESSENTIAL!!

When you’re an hourglass queen, it’s essential you choose pieces that are well tailored. You cannot get away with wearing a dress without form. The ever-popular t-shirt dress will simply not work for you, as it has no apparent shape. If you choose to wear non-tailored pieces you’ll be adding pounds to your visibility.

Look for jackets made for women like you. Blouses and jackets that have accents around the middle waist area are ideal. Jackets that tie with a bow or sash and flair out a bit at the pant-waist or hip area are terrific for an hourglass shape. They can draw attention to the smallest area of your body while properly adding balance to your bust and hips. Shirts that have darting in the front and sides are also great because they will accentuate your smallest areas and flair out where you need the extra space.

V-Neck Tops are Ideal for Hourglass Shapes

If you want to go a little more casual, you can easily grab a v-neck tee and pair it with a cute pair of bootcut jeans. V-neck tops automatically lengthen your neckline and bring attention to face. This is a great thing when you want to accentuate your best characteristics. In addition, it can create a visual line downward to your waist, which is also a place you want to draw attention to.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 16

2011-12-11T06:00:00.000-07:00

You’re not an apple, honey, you’re a diamond!

Diamonds Are A Girl’s Best Friend…How To Dress A Diamond Shaped Body

Diamonds are indeed a girl’s best friend, in terms of jewelry. However, a diamond shaped body can be a challenge to dress! Everyone woman wants to look great in her clothes, no matter what size she is. When your body is uniquely shaped finding appropriate clothes to flatter your shape takes time and knowledge. But, the good news is there are tips and tricks that help any diamond shaped woman sparkle like a precious gem!

Diamond Proportions Should Be Flawless

The trick to flattering fashion is proportioning. A diamond body has a larger waistline, smaller shoulders, a smaller chest, wide hips and wide thighs. Thus, the game of perfect proportion can be challenging. However, it’s essential to learn to properly balance your body with clothing if you want clothing to flatter your figure. Perfect proportioning not only allows your clothing to look great but it also visually slims your shape and can make you appear to be ten or twenty pounds lighter than you actually are.

A-Line Dresses & Skirts are an ABSOLUTE DO!

To start, everyone woman with a diamond shape should own a few A-line dresses or skirts. A-line dresses and skirts instantly offer balance to a diamond shaped body. When choosing a skirt, be sure to pick one that sits at the knee or just below the knee. The longer length will not only allow the item to be appropriate for many settings (work, home, leisure) but it will also conceal wider hips and thighs. Pair this type of skirt with a fitted shirt that slightly flairs at the waist. This type of blouse gives the area under your bust (which is typically smaller than your waist) definition but gives you a little breathing room around a wider waist area.

Blazers can offer diamond clarity

When you want to create proportion it’s important you don’t reach for shapeless clothing. When looking for defining clothing pieces, diamond shaped gals should certainly consider blazers. Blazers are a hot trend being paired with skirts and dresses by day and with jeans by night. Thus, a great blazer can adapt to any event you’re attending. Look for a blazer made for a woman and don’t even think about grabbing one made for a man! Blazers that are slightly nipped or tacked in the waist area are a great way to slim the waistline and instantly create a strong shoulder area.

The cut of your jeans makes a big impression

Jeans are now worn everywhere. While they once were reserved for backyard barbeques, they’re now even being worn in offices. Thus, when choosing a pair of jeans to flatter your diamond shape, it’s all about the cut of the pant. Search for a pair with a slight flare at the bottom for ultimate proportion control. Most brands refer to this style of pant as a “bootcut” option. The straight leg will elongate your bottom half while the slight flair will balance out your shape. The result will show a well defined waist and a longer look overall.

Tunics offer easy options

When you body is shaped like a diamond, you’re likely wondering what you can throw on for a simple Saturday shopping trip. The answer is a simple tunic. Tunics can be tricky, so take heed! Diamond shaped women should go for tunics with seaming. This specific type of tunic will create darts where they’re needed and let the fabric flow where it should.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 15

2011-12-09T06:00:00.000-07:00

Let’s get our facts straight!

Fashion tips for straight-waisted women.

Are you tired of looking at your body in the mirror only to realize you have no defined shape? If so, you’re probably a rectangle shape. Rectangle shaped (or straight waisted) women have slender legs and arms. They also have straight waists that have very little definition. While models are often rectangular shaped, it can be difficult to pull off this body type unless your'e pint sized. The good news is there are fashion tips and tricks that can make you appear as if you have curves, even if you really don’t!

She’s Got Legs!

One thing a rectangle girl has going for her is her sexy legs. So, show them off! You can do this in a classy and tasteful way by choosing simple skirts that sit at the knee. There’s no need to go overboard with a mini, unless you’re extremely daring and under the age of 32 (sorry, it’s a fashion rule). But, you can show a little skin and draw the eye to one of your best features. Choose flowing skirts in the summer and wool skirts with dark tights in the winter months.

Button Down Shirts Save the Day!

When you want to create curves it’s important you look for clothing with waist definition. You can do this by choosing button down shirts with seaming. This type of blouse visually creates a waist, without any effort on your part. Look for shirts with darting and seaming in the front middle area that draws in slightly at the waist. Most women’s shirts naturally are shaped in this way. However, if you’re often tempted to go for men’s clothing you will not be able to pull this look off. So, steer clear of those men’s work shirts! They may be comfortable but they will do nothing for your shape.

Indulge in Wrap Tops

Wrap tops are not often flattering on most body types. However, a rectangle shape is the exception! They are made for women who want to create a more defined waist. Thus, you can easily pair one with slacks, a skirt or jeans to create a natural waist. Be sure to choose a wrap top that actually wraps just above your natural waist for the most flattering look. Wrap tops with details around the waist wrap are best for flattering waist definition. They automatically draw the eye to the waist area and create a curvy shape where one would normally not exist.

Go with the Belted Top trend

Belts are in…in a big way! So, take advantage of the trends and grab a few belted tops. If you want to make a bold statement, choose a shirt with a wide belt accessory. Be sure the belt sits right above your natural waist, to further slim the area and offer more definition to the waist area. The belt should not be tight but it should be fitted. A good rule is if your stomach bulges out above the belt while sitting, your belt is too tight! So, be sure to test each belted blouse before purchasing.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 14

2011-12-07T06:00:00.000-07:00

Let’s go Swimming!

The bane of every woman’s existence…the bathing suit. You gasp, you groan, you moan, you wonder how you’ll ever show your face on the beach. Rest assured, my dears, that there are styles out there for everyone!

Swimwear:

The skirtini is a recent advance on the ordinary bathing suit, and plus size women who want to have fun in the sun are choosing the skirtini style over skimpier suits. Skirtinis are available in a range of top styles; you can choose a tank top, a halter or even a traditional bikini bra. But the bottom of the skirtini is always a skirt; sometimes mid-thigh in length, sometimes shorter. If you feel self-conscious about wearing tiny bathing suit bottoms or if you want to minimize the tops of your thighs, the skirtini is a natural choice. For emphasis on your bustline or pretty shoulders, wear a skirtini with a bikini-style top, and for an extra slimming look, a flat-front skirtini is the right choice.

The classic tankini replaces the bikini bra with a higher-coverage tank style top instead. For plus size or middle-aged swimmers who don't have six-pack abs, the tankini is a wonderful thing; you can go into the water or lie by the pool without worrying about your midriff. Tankinis are also ideal for fair-skinned women who want to minimize sun exposure of the delicate stomach region, but who still want to play in the water. The tankini works when you want to place emphasis on your legs without baring too much skin; you can show off the curve of your knees and ankles while keeping your top under wraps.

(The tankini is my swimsuit of choice. I love having the choice of tops and bottoms and then mixing and matching. Plus, they're awesome, comfy, and HOT!)

A swim dress can be convenient if you want to maximize coverage without shopping for separates. But you have to be careful when choosing a swim dress: don't get so caught up in covering up that you neglect to put your best features on display. A swim dress should have a beautiful top or an excellent skirt, or it's nothing more than a bag. Look for surplice wrapped bodices or an asymmetric skirt to put the focus on waist or leg. A plunging or 50's-style halter top suits most women's figures, too. Don't fall prey to the idea that all swimwear should be in black, and never settle for huge, tropical flowers unless you really like them. All women can have pretty, appealing swimwear: you just have to look for it.

(Really though, let's reserve the swimdress for the 70+ set, okay? Grandmas look sooo cute in these, but I've yet to see a younger woman wear one successfully.)

If you have pretty legs, a nice waistline or an excellent bustline, a one piece bathing suit may be just right for you. There are so many styles, it's difficult to choose the best, so you have to decide what image you'd like to project. Do you want to look like a 50's bathing beauty, or an up-to-the-minute swimwear fashionista? Retro style one piece swimsuits might have a straight front panel across the upper leg instead of the body-suit type of suit we've seen since the '70s. Look for a side ruching or a wrapped or halter top to create curves, or spaghetti straps to show off your shoulders and upper arms. Long waisted women beware: sometimes it's difficult to find a one piece suit that's long enough in the torso: you might want to try swim separates.

Swim separates are one of the great advances in fashion of the age. Especially if you have trouble finding a single suit that hides your flaws and makes the most of your beauty, choosing to buy swimwear separates makes sense. And if you like to spend a lot of time in the sun and the water, swim separates can help you create a swimwear wardrobe filled with matching and coordinated items. Start with a maillot in your favorite color; next, add a skirtini bottom for parties on the beach. Matching tank and bikini tops, surf shorts and a pareo for covering up on a cool night complete your swimwear wardrobe and give you eight different swimsuit options!

A plus size shortini is a great suit for any full figured woman looking to cover larger hips and thighs. This type of swimwear is also great for outdoor water activities since this suit will not ride up your behind. This swim suit style is also easy to fit body types that are different sizes on the top and bottom since the two pieces can be purchased separatly if necessary.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 13

2011-12-05T06:00:00.000-07:00

Top it all off

The first thing most people notice is what you’re wearing on top. Make sure it’s cute, flattering, and appropriate, and you’re set!

Sexy Layering Camisole Tanks

A sexy camisole or tank can be worn under your clothes or right out in the open for a more daring look. Silk, cotton or polyester, printed, mesh or solid fabric; there are more sexy camisoles out there than you can shake a spiked heel at. Camisoles are great under fitted jackets and cardigans and make them more work appropriate. So, what's your choice? Start by deciding between a camisole and a tank. Tanks tend to be more casual, but you can find them with thin straps and lace trimmings on a ribbed cotton top. Camisoles tend more towards the frankly feminine, and their signature spaghetti straps will relegate you to tiny bra straps too. If you are going to wear a plus size camisole on its own, look for one with a little thicker strap to avoid you bra showing. For a fun look, coordinate your bra color with your top so that your green camisole slips to show a bright blue bra strap, or your black tank straps give way to hot pink.

Scoop Necks

Scoop neck shirts can look nice on all kinds of figures, but you will want to choose the right neckline for the occasion. If you want to vamp it up, a deep scoop and cap sleeves can work well on a Friday night at the clubs, but don't think about wearing it to work! A smaller scoop shows a hint of cleavage without committing you to anything, which is fun for weekends and first dates. It's especially important with scoop neck shirts to wear the right bra: your bust should be controlled, not constrained. And you definitely shouldn't go braless under any conditions: a scoop neck worn without the right underwear can turn even a nice bust into a saggy disaster.

Button Downs

A button down shirt with just the right seaming can help create an attractive curvy waist line. Avoid "oversized" shirts with no seaming since this can look too much like a man's button down shirt. Look for fun feminine details like embellishments, lace, bold colors and fun patterns. Also be sure that a plus size button down shirt fits the widest part of you to avoid button pulling and gapping. The rest of the shirt can always been taken in by a tailor to fit exactly.

Baby Dolls

Baby doll tops are characterized by an Empire (high) waist, and a blousy bodice that flares out slightly in a light, airy fabric. Baby doll styles are great for plus size figures, since they can hide parts of your stomach you may feel uncomfortable about. The empire waist also put emphasis on the smallest part of your waist, creating a hour-glass shape. The recent focus on '70's fashions has brought the baby doll shirt again into fashion-forward status. Look for retro classics in paisley gauze, or modern updates in tiny flower prints. Baby doll tops are not for the workplace unless they are covered with a tailored jacket; people won't take you seriously. But wear them on weekends, date nights and play dates like miniature golf or a day at the movies. They're perfect paired with jeans or a plain denim skirt.

Halter Tops

A halter top can be very good or very, very bad, and a lot depends on its construction as well as the type of body it adorns. If your bust isn't very large, a properly fitting halter top can make the most of what you have by creating cleavage where it normally doesn't exist. Medium bustlines can also benefit from a halter top, especially one with shaping that lifts, creating a longer waistline as well as a fuller bust. Halter tops can also deemphasize wide shoulders. But if you are blessed with a big bust, halter tops can be more dangerous than fashionable. Halter top straps wrap around the neck: women with larger busts should consider tops with more width to the wrap, making the overall look fuller. Skinny straps can look out of balance with a large, full bust. Sexy halter tops also fit more snugly around the midriff: for something more playful try an Empire style halter top in a gauzy printed cotton with a looser fit.

Fashionable V-necks

If you don't like the way you look in scoop necked shirts, chances are you'll be happier in v neck shirts instead. The classic modest v neck gives depth without actual cleavage, or you can get a wider v and show your stuff. V-necks tend to lengthen your neckline and bring attention to your face. V necks revitalized the flagging women's t-shirt industry years ago and are now a wardrobe must have. They look great with practically everything; little cotton t-shirts with jeans and casual skirts, or silk v-neck shirts with dress pants and evening wear all strike the right note. Most women look great in v necks: getting the depth of the v right means everything. A shallow v can work in the workplace, but never a deep v.

Special Occasion

A special occasion top is just the thing for the wedding, anniversary, baptism, graduation or other special event when you need a top to pair with ultra-dressy pants or skirts. Special occasion tops tend to come in luxury fabrics: satins or silks for warm weather or velvets and cashmere for winter are the norm. You'll find them in long sleeves and sleeveless; ¾ sleeves are popular too. The most important thing for a plus size special occasion top is that you match the formality of the occasion and pick a style that flatter your body type. A slightly dressier top can take an unadorned skirt from plain to gorgeous by the planful addition of embroidery or beadwork. Even a white silk drape across the neck of a plain dressy top can uplift the entire outfit. Avoid so-called special occasion tops in synthetics: go for the real thing in silk velvet or satins, dupioni silk, matte wool jersey or sheer cotton lawn.

Sweaters:

Sweaters have come a long way from boxy cut knit wear with little to no shape. Now sweaters can be found in many flattering styles and fabrics (like cashmere and wool/cotton blends) that look great on all figures. Some basic sweater shopping tips that will be flattering to all are: 1. Sweaters with a slight v-neck or deep v neckline compliment and bring attention to a beautiful face. 2. Look for sweaters that are cut with a slight curve at the waistline or just above to create a naturally looking hourglass figure. 3. A sweater set or cardigan creates a long vertical line down the middle of the body, which creates the illusion of a long, lean body.

Wool Blends

Wool blend sweaters are known for their warmth, shape and ease of wear. Sweaters made strictly of wool can be scratchy, but sweaters of wool and acrylic or cashmere blend are softer and have a bit more give to them. Look for cable knit cardigans, especially if you happen to be tall, but be careful if the cable patten look too pulled at the bust line. Plus size petites may want to find wool blend sweaters with a vertical knit or pattern that adds length to the figure. V neck wool blend sweaters look nice with a button down shirt or a lacy camisole peeking out. Wear them with jeans, khakis, slacks or skirts. A more trendy look in plus size wool sweaters are long sweaters that cover the rear. If you have the height to carry a longer sweater, make sure the sweater still has tailoring and it not cut in a square, boxy shape.

Cashmere (my dream!)

There's not much nicer than a womens cashmere sweater, because there's practically nothing softer on earth. Cashmere comes from cashmere goats; the wool is combed from the animals instead of them being shorn. This is partly why the cashmere fibers are soft on the ends: there are no harsh ends from clipping. The traditional cashmere sweater was part of a twin set; a sleeveless shell topped with a cardigan with little, pearl buttons. But cashmere has come a long way since then: you can get it in crew neck styles, wrap sweaters, and big, deep v necks. Cashmere sweaters come in a million colors, so pick your favorite and if there's a sale on, get three. Invest in classic sweater styles in cashmere because you will have them as your wardrobe building blocks for many years to come and will enjoy their soft, luscious feel.

V-neck Pullover

Every woman should have a collection of v neck pullover sweaters because they are so darned useful. They look terrific on most every figure, so you don't have to worry about getting it wrong when you buy one. Look for medium weight v neck pullover sweaters if you want to conceal a chubby waistline, or get lighter weight fabrics for showing off a svelte upper body. A lighter weight sweater is also great for layering with a tank or button down shirt. For semi-casual occasions, nothing looks as casually dressy as a v neck pullover in your favorite jewel tone shade of cashmere—what else! Other dressy fabrics include merino wool or a silk blend that can transform this workaday sweater style into real elegance. A v neck will help elongate the neck while bringing more attention to your face and works great on any plus size body type. Its a classic!

Cable Knit

Cable knit sweaters were once bulky items, hand knitted from cotton or wool. You can certainly still buy cable knit sweaters that make you look like a sack of potatoes, but plus size customers have choices now of sweaters that make them look pretty. It's all about the cable and the yarn: smaller, thinner yarns create smaller, finer cables, which make the overall sweater appear more finely knitted and constructed. You can find them in tiny silk knits, delicate cottons or fluffy acrylics in addition to the traditional wool. In wools, you can choose between soft cashmere and merino as well as the ordinary sheep's' wool (though a bit scratchy). Cable knit sweaters can be found in v neck pullovers, crew neck designs, turtlenecks and cardigans, so you can choose your favorite style. They all look terrific with jeans or casual skirts.

Cardigans/Twin Sets

Cardigans are one of the most versatile sweater options because they can be worn over thin turtlenecks in the winter, sleeveless blouses in the summer and anything you like the rest of the year too. Although you can wear sweater sets anytime of year, you may also find them useful in spring and fall, when weather is unpredictable. Cardigans are easy to wear and can go anywhere, in either casual fabrics like cotton or wool, or fancier styles in angora, silk or merino. They go perfectly with the standard classic black skirt that's even now hanging in your closet; or you can dress up your favorite strategically faded jeans. Sweater sets do an amazing job of creating a vertical line or division down the center of your body. This will give you that long, lean appearance and bring balance to your body. So if you're looking for the perfect, demure, wear-to-work and then a first-date cardigan, choose a twin set in the most flattering color for you, and make it cashmere.

Turtleneck

Turtleneck sweaters are the foundation of any winter wardrobe, and the thinner they are the more you can layer on top. Recent versions of the turtleneck are available in microfiber or silk blends, guaranteed to keep you warm on the slopes or in that over-air-conditioned office where you shiver all summer long. Like all sweaters, turtlenecks can reveal nearly everything or practically nothing at all—it's all up to you. If you want to hide out in a big, bulky turtleneck while hiking the windy Pacific Trail, look for a bulky sweater of cotton and wool to keep you warm. If you just want a sexy sweater to wear out at night, take home a medium-weight cotton turtleneck that clings in all the right places and none of the wrong ones. Add jeans and boots.

Knit Sweater Differences

Sweaters are knit more often than not, although you will see some "sweaters" made of woven fabrics like fleece. When you start shopping for sweaters, you'll notice the price range is unbelievably wide: you'll see merino sweaters for $40 and others for $300, and you'll wonder what the difference is. The difference is the quality of the fiber used to make the knit sweaters. In general, you'll see that acrylic sweaters cost less than others; if you like acrylic, you're in luck! Acrylic can be super soft and machine washable, making it a favorite for easy wear and easier care. But if you're looking for the ultimate in knit sweaters, you may discover that your desire for cashmere outshines even the prospect of regular dry cleaning. It's just so soft!

Figure Flattering Wraps

Wrap sweaters are one way to keep your figure when women all around you are losing theirs to big, fat, puffy sweaters. A wrap sweater, with its v neck and tied waist, does nice, flattering things for the bustline and waistline. Wraps should be of thinner knit fabric that fits smoothly and moves when you do. You may also want to pair a plus size wrap sweater with a cami to hide any excess cleavage. You'll find these sweaters in thin cottons, silks, merino wool and cashmere or angora. You can wear a wrap sweater over a classic black skirt; it's just a bit dressier than khaki pants. Look for wrap sweaters in solid colors—the design gives you all the movement required.

Cowl Neck

Cowl neck sweaters have a draped natural neckline that create a place of visual interest at the neck. Most cowl necks are interesting enough that you don't have to wear a necklace or other neck jewelry. The interest of the neckline bring attention to your face and away from other body areas you may want to downplay. These sweaters are available in all sort of colors and styles including cable knit, cashmere, cotton knits, thin knits, thick wools and more. Some cowl necks dip lower than others and look rather nice layered with a lacy camisole or tank for a little sexy edge.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 12

2011-12-03T06:00:00.000-07:00

Dress for success!

I don’t know about you, but dresses scare the daylights out of me. I can hide a lot with a skirt that seems to show up to the nth power in a dress. But I’m working on that fear and actually bought 2 dresses last year. And I like wearing them!

Dresses:

When shopping for a dress to accentuate what you love about your womanly figure, here are a few clothing tips to consider. A slightly higher waisted dress with a waist line that sits just below the bustline will define the slimmest portion of your figure and create the perfect hour glass body shape. Casual dress lengths should be at the knee or slightly below the knee.

It’s time to give your straight dresses and skirts a breather and make room for the ultra-feminine flare dress. This fashionable little number is being made popular by such celebrities as Renee Zellweger and Eva Mendes who look chic and “oh so girly” sporting these trendy dresses. If you’ve accustomed to wearing straight skirts and dresses, you may feel a little awkward giving this style a try. The good news is once you slip one on, you’ll wonder how you lived without it.

The flare dress dates back to the 1950’s when this style dominated the fashion world for several years. When you look back at photos from that era and marvel at the tiny waist lines on the women of that day, you’ll understand the magic of the flare dress. This dress style can visually shave a few inches off the appearance of your waist line. It’s particularly flattering for women with a natural hour glass shape. If your shape is not quite voluptuous enough, this dress can give you the curves you’ve always wanted. If you’re carrying around a few extra pounds in the hip area, a flare dress will skillfully hide the truth underneath feminine billows of material.

How do you choose a flare dress that’s right for you?
Full figured women should choose a flare dress in a dark color with a longer, flared skirt. Avoid one that has ruffles or too much detailing. Steer clear of bright colors and prints. Simple will be more flattering to you.

If you have a toned upper body and a firm bust line, try one of the off the shoulder or strapless flare dresses that will be so popular this spring. This is a wonderful look for a daytime wedding or a nighttime summer party. If you’re petite and slender, choose a flare dress with a little less flounce at the bottom to avoid overwhelming your small frame. This look can be dazzling on your figure type.

What’s the best way to accessorize a flare dress?

This look is so feminine and dramatic that it looks best with simple accessories that won’t detract from the drama of the dress. If you’re wearing a strapless flare dress, resist the urge to add a heavy necklace and let your neckline go bare instead. Scoop your hair up into a loose, feminine up-do and add some eye catching dangle earrings for the perfect party look. Don’t forget about selecting the right shoes. Flare dresses are perfectly suited for feminine stilettos and high heels. A backless mule type heel is also a pretty look.

Because all trends eventually run their course, resist the urge to buy a closet full of flare dresses. Buy one or two basic ones to take you through the spring season and enjoy wearing this very pretty look while it lasts.

Two Piece Jacketed Dress

A two piece jacket dress can strike the right note for meetings or casual evenings out. There are a variety of styles; more elegant two piece jacket dresses may include a longer, flowing jacket that is nearly a tunic and skirt decorated with embroidery or beading. For daytime wear, fabrics are simpler and jackets may be shorter. You will see jackets with peplums, but most women should avoid the peplum; it juts out at the waist and makes your rear end look larger. Look for a jacket short enough to end at the waist but without standing out away from the body. Soft, draping jackets and skirts are more flattering than more highly structured pieces.

Casual Dresses

A casual dress can be worn grocery shopping, to work, or for fun on weekends. The polo dress style is casual and flattering; a slight A-line that falls from the shoulders and only slightly flaring at the hips makes it easy and unfussy to wear. Other casual dress styles include the khaki or denim dress and, for a dressier look, the sleeveless linen sheath. To find a casual dress, focus on its shape. Its lines should be straight, without fluffy skirts or puffy sleeves. It shouldn't be daring; casual and daring don’t work well together. Avoid extra embellishment; beads, embroidery and lace try too hard. Look for something so simple, so unadorned and plain in line that you wouldn't even try it on unless you read this first. Then, try it on!

A-Line Dress

The A-line dress is the most flattering dress type for any figure, and is especially so for plus size figures. The A-line fits closer at the top, starting a gentle flare well before the natural waistline and skimming over the hips with room to spare. This style is highly feminine without being too specific, suggesting the curve of the body rather than outlining it. A-line dresses have soft lines that can camouflage flaws and make the most of your best points. Choose an A-line dress with a jewel neck if you want to minimize your bust, or a deep V if you want to make the most of it. Because A-line fashions come in every length, you can choose a short dress to show off your legs.

LBD

Every woman has to have a sexy Little Black Dress! And plus size women need the LBD too, even if it does come in larger sizes. The LBD is your guarantee of having something nice to wear to any event, and at a moment's notice. Make your Little Black Dress something special by deciding beforehand how you want to look in it. Demure or elegant? Sexy is a state of mind, and some women feel sexiest wearing a dress that leaves a lot to the imagination. The essence of choosing the right sexy little black dress is finding the one that makes you feel gorgeous. It might be kneelength, with a nipped in waist; it might be a flowing column of satin or velvet. Remember—it doesn't have to be short; Audrey Hepburn's LBD was a long, sleeveless evening gown.

Career Wear

Where you work can dictate what you wear, but there are some styles that work well in the professional to semi-casual workplace no matter where it is. Wearing the right clothes at work seriously impacts your image and your success! Appropriate clothing is hugely important: solid colors come across as more serious than prints or (heaven forbid!) florals. Try a sheath dress out of men's suiting fabric in a fine wool plaid, that you can pair with a jacket or cardigan. Linen, gabardine and wool are the right fabrics for the workplace. Keep career dresses slightly tailored and fitted; avoid swingy skirts, plunging anything, and short skirts. Skirts should be either ever so slightly above the knee, or a couple of inches below it.

Wrap Dresses

The right wrap dress can make you look terrific, but finding the right wrap dress can be tricky. For plus size figures, the dress fabric should have more structure than the usual clinging jersey, so it will wrap nicely at the waist but stand away from the body at the stomach and hips. A flared skirt paired with a wrap top can work wonderfully as long as the flare begins above the actual waist. Watch out for 1970's style wrap dresses, which featured the bust by creating big, deep V-necks that make most women look trampy. If you have an extremely flat chest, you might try such a dress with the right bra, of course, for a completely new, chesty look. Otherwise, rely on the wrap to create the curves you want noticed and save the bust for another dress.

Sun Dresses

The sun dress is a summer staple, and it comes in as many styles as you can imagine. Find the sun dress that flatters your figure! You don't need Barbie's waistline to look great in a slip dress, an A-line or an Empire waisted dress. Empire waists look especially nice in sun dresses because the fashion is playful and slightly retro; as impermanent as a summer frock. Slip dresses are also pretty and playful; because they fall from spaghetti straps in a straight line, they can minimize hips as well as hiding the waist. Show off your legs with short skirts or maybe a skirt with a slit in the side. If you're going for a fairly modest, A-line sun dress, consider a more daring, plunging front or a backless style.

Halter Dress

The halter dress cannot be misinterpreted. It is always playful; sometimes suggestive. It is not a serious dress and should never be worn to work unless you work as a fashion consultant in a vintage clothing store. This is a third-date dress; a dress for homewrecking and Martinis. This is not an opera dress. The halter dress flatters most figures; with the right bra, women of all shapes and sizes can get along just fine in a halter. You don't need us to tell you that the deeper the neck, the wilder the evening. Accentuate your waist by choosing a halter that lifts you up, elongating the torso. Large busted women should avoid halters with too much drape; they add too much weight to your top. Small-busted women can choose halters with more fabric and some slouch to it.

Skirts:

Now we’re back into comfortable and familiar territory…

Elegant & Sleek Pencil Skirts

The pencil skirt got its name because it is as straight as a pencil: the skirt is cut in a straight line falling from the hip to the hem of the skirt. Normally, pencil skirts hit you around the knee. Plus size pencil skirts look especially nice on women whose waistlines are not a lot smaller than their hips: otherwise, you wind up with a waist that sags or bunches. This type of fitted skirt is also great to balance out a fuller blouse style. You can find pencil skirts in stretch tweeds, but a true pencil skirt should fit you because of the cut, not the stretch of the fabric. The downside of stretch fabrics is that they may fit tighter across the rump, and the major benefit of a precisely fitted pencil skirt is that it downplays the backside. Look for lined pencil skirts in cotton, tweed, wool or linen. A well cut pencil skirt can be perfectly comfortable and will look good at work or in dressier situations like dining out.

Forgiving A-Line Skirt

The A line skirt is the most flattering on the majority of figures, because it flares out gently in about the same places we flare out naturally. Shopping for an A line skirt is only difficult because there are so many wonderful skirts to choose from, at all levels of formality, for work or play and in every fabric under the sun. One mistake that many plus size women make is in believing that a tunic style top will be more flattering paired with an A-line skirt. That's not true: the A-line can support shorter, more fitted tops—T-shirts, Oxfords, fitted tee or camisole with a fitted jacket. The A line creates a feminine figure with a minimum of fuss: don't cover up the effect with a too-long or voluminous top.

Classic Everyday Black Skirt

The classic black skirt means many things to many people, but to this writer, it's a particular item that should be owned by any woman who sometimes has occasion to wear a skirt and can never find one that really works. This skirt works, and works hard. It can be a pencil skirt or an A-line, but it shouldn't have too much flare. It must be comfortable, but it should fit to perfection so that you know anytime it comes out of the closet, it will do right by you. It should hit about an inch below the knee, and should be free of ornament or fuss. It must be lined, and of a good quality fabric that will last ten years. Think wool gabardine or linen. It should be matte, not shiny. This skirt can be dressed up easily with a frilly blouse and a cameo at your neck: it can go to work resting easily under a pale blue Oxford shirt. You can get away with wearing your loafers with it on the weekend, and for fancier occasions, it will match your best black pumps.

Long Denim Skirt

A denim skirt is practically a plus size wardrobe must-have, being practical, hardy, always in fashion and yet just slightly more dressy than jeans. In denim skirts, the level of sophistication matches the length: just above the knee to just at the ankle is dressier: anything shorter than just above the knee is heading towards mini-skirt, which can be playful (if long enough), or just silly (when too short). In general, a longer or knee length skirt in denim makes more sense, being slightly more formal, a bit more grown up and usually more flattering than short skirts. A bit faded is just fine, and seams that mimic the denim skirts remade from old jeans are stylish.

Flare or Bell Skirts

A bell or flared skirt is ideal for creating shape while maintaining comfort in your clothes. You'll see bell shaped skirts with gores at the bottom, creating a wider profile and interesting seams. Plus size figures are nicely complimented by this style if you need to balance out a larger shoulder, chest and stomach area. They are also great in flattering a larger hip. Flared skirts look nice with boots in the winter and fall; in lighter fabrics, they are pretty with casual shoes in spring and summer. You'll often find flared skirts in denim, twill or other fabrics that hold their shape. Bell skirts are often technically A-line, with a smaller waist and a full skirt: these styles flatter every figure, and can go anywhere.

Long Flowing Skirts

Long skirts can be formal or completely casual, but whatever skirt type you choose, make sure you get the right shoes. With a long skirt, flats just don't look right: choose something with at least a slight heel to help balance out the weight of the fabric above. For elegant evenings out, the heel should be higher. Petite women may have trouble finding long skirts that look right on them: for added shape, look for skirts whose hemline is slightly a-line, creating a lighter look at the bottom. Taller women can carry off pretty much any long skirt: for evening wear, look for solids in taffeta or for brocades. Long jean skirts are also great for a casual workplace or weekend wear.

Cotton Knit Skirts

If you're a grown woman of nearly any size you may have trouble finding a knit cotton skirt that you like to wear because most knits are made to fit long, lean figures. To find the right knit skirt, you have to first consider the design: it should fit well at the waist, but flare out soon after, to avoid the belly-clinging aspect of many knit skirts. It's pretty safe to say that unless your belly is as flat as a twelve-year old vegetarian's, you're not going to enjoy what flat-fronted knit skirts do to your figure. Choose A-line skirts with a flare, and get them longer rather than shorter. Look for drawstring models so you can custom-fit your waist. Also, consider the backside. Do not choose a skirt that outlines your derriere: give it plenty of room to maneuver and just to be itself instead of trying a clingy, rumpy skirt.

Short skirts

A skirt doesn't have to be short to be sexy, but sexy short skirts are fun to find and wear. The first rule of fashion is that even a sexy short skirt can be too short, or it ceases to be sexy. A short skirt can come a couple of inches above the knee, but it doesn't have to do more than that to get the job done. The main thing about a short skirt is that it bares the knee and the back of the knee, where the muscles curve inward, accentuating the opposite curve of the calf. It's the curve that makes short skirts sexy: once that's showing, you're home free. Short skirts shouldn't have too much flare, or the extra width will be visually transferred to the hips, so unless you want your hips to look bigger, stay with fairly straight skirts that minimize the hips instead.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 11

2011-12-01T06:00:00.000-07:00

If the shoe fits, continued...

We continue here on our journey to finding well-fitted clothing that will accentuate our fabulousness and make us feel comfortable at the same time.

Pants:

The right clothing, and especially a great pant leg, can make your legs look a mile long. When looking for pants and jeans for women avoid a tapered leg, which can give you that "ice cream cone" look. Look for pants that have a straight leg from the hip all the way down to the floor. This will give a woman's body that long lean (almost model . . wink, wink) look. Classic black or gray trouser pants are great for the office, while designer jeans are great for a night out or lounging at home.

Finding a good-fitting pair of pants is essential if you want to be comfortable at the office all day long. Women come in all shapes and sizes and knowing what to look for during a fitting will help you choose pants for your professional wardrobe that will complement your style.

Determine your correct waist style. A classic waist style sits right at your belly button level, while a natural waist is slightly lower. The natural waist is usually a little more comfortable, especially if you bend and stretch during the day.

Sit down while trying on the pants and notice the zipper. If the pants are a good fit, the zipper will lay smoothly along your abdomen. If the zipper pulls or bunches up, try pants with a lower waistline.

Wear your office shoes when you try on pants. If you normally wear a 2-inch heel to work, do so when shopping. You need to know the correct length as well as how it will look when you're at work.

Notice the hemline of the pants when you sit down. If it rides up too high, your pants might be too tight. Try a larger size or look for fabric that relaxes smoothly on your leg without riding up when you sit.

Turn your body in your mirror reflection and notice how the pants fit on your rear. The fabric should ride smoothly over your rump with no evidence of pantylines. Make sure the crotch of the pants does not bind or bunch when you sit and bend.

Choose soft comfortable fabrics that don't itch. Nylon blends are smooth against your skin. Avoid knotted tweeds that leave scratchy nubs to rub against your legs.

Ask the sales clerk about in-house adjustments if you find a great pair of pants that need just a little altering.

Wear a professional blouse when fitting pants for your professional wardrobe to see how they will look when worn to the office.

The most important change a woman needs to make in regard to pants is a change in attitude. Not wanting to appear "big," the woman often makes or chooses body hugging pants to wear under a big top. For such a woman, pants fitting over the tummy will actually accentuate the area she is trying to hide. The most flattering pant is one that hangs straight off the tummy to the top of the shoe.

Forget about the size, and go with the cut. No one has to know what size pants you're wearing, so don't try to squeeze into something that doesn't fit properly. Instead, choose items that have a tailored fit that work with your shape. Stretchy items and elastic waists are generally a bad idea for plus-sized figures.

Go dark on the bottom and light on top. This will naturally draw the eye upward and make you appear slimmer.

Being beautiful is about being confident. The better you feel about yourself, the more others will notice you. Don't be afraid to strut your stuff.

Types of Pants

Classic Trousers

Classic trouser pants are extremely flattering to most plus size figures, and it's surprising how few women know that. Women started wearing trousers in the 1960's, and the daring women who took up wearing trousers earlier than that (Katherine Hepburn is one shining example), were wearing men's clothes because pants weren't being designed for women. Modern women's trousers may err on the side of curves: avoid pants that curve into the waist or out to the hips: they are not true trousers. Classic trouser pants are perfect for work. They are made in tweed, wool, gabardine, flannel or linen blends; fabrics that take well to tailored styles and that resist wrinkling. Plus size women should look for trousers that create a long, smooth silhouette.

Jeans

Young women started wearing jeans as a fashion statement in the '50's, and ten years later, everyone under the age of thirty was wearing jeans. The classic pair of jeans sits just below the waist (called mid-rise jean) and falls in a straight line from waist hem until past the hip. After that, it's anyone's guess: bootcut jeans are straight and tight at the calf, flared legs go in and out of fashion. For many women, finding a comfortable pair of jeans that also looks stylish can be a challenge. Look for jeans that aren't overstyled: ignore trends like embroidery, extra pockets, extreme fading and fancy stitching. Brass rivets are classic; button flies add a touch of fun. Go for solid, old-fashioned dark wash denim jeans that are perfect worn with tank tops, t-shirts or sweaters.

Dressy Black

A pair of black dress pants are a must-have in any wardrobe, Classic black, straigt leg or wide leg, dress pants can go with nearly any top, so you can dress them up or down, serious or playful. You can wear them with virtually any type of shoe, so if you want to go clubbing after work, you can swap out the low heels for a pair of skinny high heels and get right to the party. Black dress pants should fit in a long, flowing line. Nothing should be tight or overemphasized: they are a backdrop for the rest of your outfit. They may flare out slightly at the bottom, but only slightly, or you will give offense to the fashion gods. Look for black pants in dressy fabrics; silk, velvet, linned wool moleskin or jersey.

Crop, Short, or Capri Pants

Crop or Capri pants are the perfect summer or spring item for the mall or beach. There are two mistakes women make with wearing Capri's: they opt for baggy ones in the wrong length; or they wear the wrong footwear. Cropped pant manufacturers don't make it easy to choose the right pants: they come in all lengths. Fashion experts say that the right length for a Capri pant is either just above the ankle (one to two inches) or just at the curve below the knee. If your pants end in one of these two places, the curve of your leg provides the shape and the charm needed to carry off cropped pants. Otherwise, your legs will look shapeless. Wearing the right shoes is also vital for correct visual balance. Ballet flats, sandals or flip-flops are light enough visually and casual enough to work with cropped pants.

Khakis

Khaki pants have liberated more women from the casual business wear conundrum than any other item of clothing under the sun. Khakis were once the province of men's wear, but designers have been making great looking khakis for women for more than a decade. The essence of khaki pants is the fabric: it should be medium weight. If khakis are too light in the fabric, they lose their shape and the tailored look that defines them. Too heavy, and you wind up with something closer to corduroy, which feels heavy when you move. True khakis are made of cotton twill. You will find stretch khakis in the plus size stores, and occasionally a pair will fit, but oftentimes stretch twill fits in all the wrong places, making it uncomfortable to wear the clothing. Avoid stretch twill khakis if when you try them on, you find they pull at the knee, the waist or the hip. Try non-stretch fabrics in a larger size for a better fit. Khakis look great with polo shirts, Oxford pinstripes and other tailored tops.

Linen

Nothing looks as nice as a pair of linen pants: something about the textured, nubbly weave makes people want to put their hand on linen. That may be the main reason we all still love it: after all, linen wrinkles, it's expensive, and it's harder and harder to find great quality linen, because its production process is complicated compared to that of linen or silk. All that said, a nice fitting pair of linen pants is worth its weight in gold! Look for trousers: they are harder to find, but you can wear them with impunity to work, on dates or anywhere else. You'll see plenty of summer Capri pants in linen, and they are fine, but for a year-long love affair with linen, you need classic pants with great tailoring and an excellent drape. Linen needs a well-tailored line or it becomes shapeless and baggy. Look for lined pants with good stitching on the seams and hems, slashed pockets and the trouser styling. Linen is the one fabric you can wear in white after Labor Day.

(Except really, if you find something fabulous and it's white and it's after Labor Day, DUDE. Wear it. Don't stick to the "rules" just to stick to them. Rules are meant to be broken in some cases, and white after Labor Day is definitely one of them. Besides, if you're going to look at it technically, EVERY DAY is after Labor Day. So there.)

Exercise

Yoga pants have become a fashion must, and they aren't just for yoga anymore. You will see them on Saturdays at the grocery store; paired with flip-flops at the local coffeehouse, or strolling to the beach on a cool day. There is something about the fit of yoga pants that makes them more appealing than the old-fashioned sweat pants. Maybe it's the way the hem of the pants curves down across the instep just a bit more than other pants; maybe the shorter waist and the flimsier fabric creates a smoother outline. The fact is, a nice pair of yoga pants can make you feel well-dressed when you're barely dressed at all. Look for bootcut legs and a waist that isn't overemphasized. Yoga pants should not come all the way up to your waist, but should sit slightly below it. Wear with a wrap over yoga top or a long tank: most women should avoid the urge to wear cropped tops with these pants.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 10a

2011-11-29T06:00:00.000-07:00

Addendum to Episode 10

(I chose to add a section on plus-sizing, because that used to be me and I could NEVER find anything I liked and I never thought I looked good in anything. Luckily, I learned some tricks over the years that I'm totally going to share.)

Plus-size women have a lot that they can be proud to show off, but there are some tricks to learn about dressing to hide the flaws and accent the positive aspects of a plus-size figure. So, if you want to know how to dress to look your best, keep reading. You'll be turning heads in no time.

Be comfortable. Regardless of what you choose to wear, you must be comfortable in it. If you spend the day tugging and pulling at your skirt because it's too short, you're actually drawing attention to your flaws and imperfections. Instead, choose fabrics and cuts that are flattering and wearable for you.

Invest in bras and panties. If you want to hide a plus size figure, you have to start from the very first layer. A good bra will lift and enhance your bust line and draw the eye up to your best assets. A well-fitted bra can also create the illusion of a slimmer waist. If you're large-chested, feel free to show off your cleavage with a good push-up or padded bra. A slimming panty can help reduce rolls and bulges and help your clothes fit better.

Accessorize. Great earrings, headbands or scarves are all great ways to draw the eye up to your face and away from your problem areas. Don't be afraid of colors or prints.

Don’t be afraid of your figure!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 10

2011-11-27T06:00:00.000-07:00

If the shoe fits…

You've worked hard dieting and exercising, and you've finally lost those 10 (or 20, or 50, or more) pounds. Now you just can't wait to buy some new clothes to show off your fitter figure.

But one trip to the mall, and you might start wishing for your old body back. The reason? No matter what you try on, nothing seems to fit! The slacks that fit your waist are too snug in the hips. The size 10 you used to wear swallows you in one store, and is tight in another. And trying to decipher the different sizing systems -- missy, juniors, women's -- sets your head spinning.

But before you give up and go back to your oversized sweats, read on for some advice from experts in the clothing industry on how to make sense of sizes.

I'll start with some good news: It's not your body that's to blame.

One problem with today's clothing sizes is that as a nation, our basic shape has been gradually changing. Yet much of the clothing industry hasn't yet recognized that fact. At least, that's the conclusion of SizeUSA, a research project from textile company that recently set out to determine today's true American size standards.

"We heard a lot of complaints from consumers about not being able to find clothes that fit them, which is what led us to develop this project," which was jointly sponsored by manufacturers and the U.S. Commerce Department, says SizeUSA director Jim Lovejoy.

Using a specially designed body scanner, the company took electronic measurements of some 10,000 American men and women in a range of ages, races, sizes, and locales. These measurements were used to create a mathematical model of today's "average" body. Not surprisingly, says Lovejoy, it's not exactly the shape the fashion industry has been using to create our clothes.

"Clothes made today are based on the hourglass shape for both men and women," he says. "We found men are now leaning more towards what we call the inverted triangular shape, their shoulders wider than their hips, while women are going the other way, pear-shaped, with hips wider than shoulders."

So if trying to put your "pear" body into an "hourglass"-shaped designer garment feels a lot like putting the square peg in the round hole, you're not alone.

Still, don't expect your local mall to be full of better-fitting clothing right away. While Lovejoy hopes the new report will eventually change the way all clothing is sized, he says it will likely take some time before manufacturers make major changes.

Deciphering Vanity Sizing

A label game known as "vanity sizing" can make finding the right size even more difficult.

"Some designers try to make customers feel good by putting a size 4 label on a size 8 garment, or a size 10 on a size 14, which is why in certain lines you seem to take a much smaller size than you do in others," says George Simonton, a professor of fashion design at New York's Fashion Institute of Technology.

Unless you're onto the game, says Simonton, you could end up frustrated as you spend hours hauling armfuls of the wrong-size garments into the dressing room.

Even more frustrating is when a designer or retailer uses standard measurements to make their garments, then translates those numbers differently when converting to the popular "letter sizing" -- S, M, L, XL, 1X, 2X, 3X -- a sizing concept that has no universal standards.

A recent Lane Bryant catalog, for example, shows a 1X T-shirt as equal to a size 22-24 (bust 46-49 1/2 inches) while in the Spiegel catalog, a 1X T-shirt equals a size 14-16 (bust 42-44 inches). Hop over to Newport News, and a 1X T-shirt equals a 14-16 -- which that company says fits a 43- to 45-inch bust!

The answer, says Simonton, is to forget what the size tag says and just go for the fit. If you're buying something you can't try on, take accurate body measurements and consult the company's size chart.

"You can't assume that because you're a large in one line, that all larges, or all 14s for that matter, are going to fit you -- that's just the way it is today, " Simonton tells WebMD.

Still another problem is getting a good fit in garments containing spandex. The initial idea was to add this stretchy material to make clothes fit more comfortably. But instead, designers often use it as a way to make clothes smaller while still meeting size requirements. The end result: You may get the item on, but it's going to fit like a second skin.

"Depending on the manufacturer, you may have to go up several sizes if you want a spandex garment to have a relatively normal fit," says Simonton.

Misses, Juniors, Women's ... Oh, My!

Further complicating the quest for a perfect fit, there are four different size ranges for women's clothing in the U.S. Here's a primer on the basic differences:

Missy sizes (even sizes, generally 2-18). If your figure is "average" -- no one part of your body (particularly your arms, upper back, or bust line) is out of proportion to the rest of you, your waist is neither high nor low, and your torso is "average," try a "missy" size.

Junior sizes (odd sizes, often 0-13). Whether you're 17 or 47, if your arms are slim, your bottom narrow and your bust high (or if you simply like your clothes to fit close to the body), you're a "junior" fit.

Women's sizes (such as 16W-32W). If you have a fuller, lower bustline and extra weight in the upper arms and upper back, a "women's" size may fit best. A 16W or 18W has broader fit through the top than a missy 16 or 18, and the overall cut is different. Half sizes were once a popular subdivision of the missy category (starting at 12 1/2 and going up to 22 1/2). But this fit has been replaced by women's sizing, with 16W being equal to the old 16 1/2, and so on.

Petite sizes (such as 2P-32WP). Technically, petite clothing is women's or missy sizes proportioned for women 4'11" to 5'3" tall (with shorter arm, leg, and overall garment length). It's usually cut smaller across the back as well. So if you are over 5'3" but have either very short arms, or a long torso and short legs, some petite separates might work for you.

Then, of course, there's "one size fits all." The general consensus here: "It doesn't exist." Unless you don't care if your clothes are smotheringly tight or tent-like, chances are you won't find the fit you're looking for with these garments -- no matter how much spandex they have!

Style Matters

After you figure out the right size, finding the right style is a big part of getting the fit you want. June Saltzman, vice president of fashion merchandising for the Home Shopping Network, offers the following style definitions (They apply not only to clothes sold on HSN, but to most items available off the rack):

Close fit -- follows the curves of the body.

Fitted -- slightly more relaxed, but still follows your curves.

Semi-fitted -- close to the body, but with more ease of movement.

Loose-fitting -- generously sized, with ease of movement and fabric drape.

Very loose-fitting -- cut very full for ultimate comfort.

While electronic retailers and some catalogs provide this information to shoppers, you may simply have to use your "eye" when sizing up the cut of clothing in a brick-and-mortar store.

Sizing Up Your Shopping Options

It may actually be easier to find the right size when you buy from electronic and catalog retailers than when you shop at the mall. Because inaccurate sizing can lead to returns, many such retailers have taken steps to avoid sizing confusion.

For example, all 60 lines of clothing from HSN conform to identical size standards -- unlike many department or specialty stores, where every line may have its own sizing structure, Saltzman says.

"Because shoppers can't try things on, we had to get over a lot of hurdles, and one way we did that was to give equity to all of our brands," Saltzman says. Since 90% of all fashions sold on HSN are exclusive to the network, Saltzman says, it was easy to lay down the sizing law.

To further ensure a better fit, Saltzman says, HSN tweaked the industry-standard measurements to develop a more relaxed fit, closer to what SizeUSA has found to be the "normal" American shape.

"We started with standard size measurements and we interpreted them to our style, which at HSN is a nice, full fit, not skimpy -- it's Middle America, demographics of age 45-plus, " Saltzman says. That even includes anything containing spandex!

Online retailer QVC also has standardized sizing across all its lines -- but the two networks don't share the same sizing structure. So if you're a 2X on HSN, don't automatically think you're a 2X on QVC; you've still got to check sizing charts, says Simonton.

For online purchasers, HSN, Lands' End, and some other retailers also allow you to create a virtual model of your body so you can "try on" clothes online. You enter your body measurements, and a computer program builds a 3-D, on-screen model of you. Then when you click on outfits you like, you get an idea of how they look on your body size and type.

"It can show you how you're going to look from all angles," Saltzman says. And that can go a long way in taking the sting out of that first glance in the full-length mirror!

Make Mine Customized

Still another answer to the fit dilemma comes by way of a California-based company called Archetype Solutions. The brainchild of Rob Holloway, former CEO of Levi Strauss and Co., this computerized system takes body measurements and other details supplied by the shopper, including style and fit preferences, and turns it all into a custom-made garment -- for a price that rivals off-the rack styles.

Sportswear retailer Lands' End was among the first to jump on the Archetype bandwagon and has no regrets.

"We feel Lands' End Custom is revolutionizing the apparel industry -- it's changing the way people shop for clothes online," says Sam Taylor, vice president of custom clothes for Wisconsin-based Lands' End.

Lands' End's custom line began with its men's chinos, but the company quickly added women's chinos, then women's and men's' jeans, men's dress slacks, and now dress shirts for both sexes.

Customers, says Taylor, are clamoring for more. "In 2003, custom sales grew 72% over the prior year, and we're going to continue to expand in many categories," Taylor says.

The price of a pair of Lands' End custom- made jeans (which in women's sizes ranges from a 24- to 44-inch waist and 33- to 50-inch hip) is $54. If they don't fit the way you like, Lands' End will take them back and try again until you're happy. Once you are, the pattern is stored and you can reorder any time -- the same style, or another one -- knowing that you'll get the same made-for-you fit.

Lands' End has been joined by Target.com, which offers custom jeans, chinos, and shirts through its "Target to a T" program. More retailers are expected to jump on the bandwagon soon.

Whether or not you're ready to spring for custom made, here are some simple tips that can help anyone find their best fit:

Check manufacturers' sizing charts. These are often available online, along with helpful hints on how to take your measurements correctly (Here's one: Get a friend to help).

Try clothes on whenever possible, wearing the same type of undergarments and shoes you'll be wearing with them.

Enlist the aid of salespeople, who may be knowledgeable about how different lines and items fit.

If you find a line of clothing that fits well, stick with it.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 9

2011-11-25T07:00:00.000-07:00

We’re ‘dyeing’ to try this!

Getting your hair color right isn't a science. It's really quite simple: Stick to colors that complement your skin tone, figure out if you're best off with all-over color or highlights and then decide if you're going to pay someone else to do it or do it yourself.

Here are 11 hair color tricks your hairdresser knows, from how to avoid the wrong color to exactly how to do it yourself.

How to Choose the Perfect Shade of Blonde

Some women look good in any color (remember Linda Evangelista?) but most women don't. If you had blonde hair as a kid, you'll likely look good with blonde hair as an adult. If you have pink skin that burns easily, and blue or green eyes, you'll look great with blonde hair, but avoid strawberry shades. If you have sallow skin with yellow undertones? Stay away from deep golds.

If you are going the bottle route, never color your hair more than 2 shades lighter than your natural shade.

The Right Way to Go (or Stay) Brown

If you have super pale skin and brown hair, consider lightening up your hair. Super dark shades can look ghastly and make you appear older (Eeek).

The main rule of thumb is to go only 2 shades lighter or darker than your natural color at home. Anything more, and you should get thee to the salon.

Can I Go Red?

Almost everyone can go red, what's most important is finding the right shade of red. If you want to go red, I suggest not trying it on your own. Get a professional consultation. You won't believe the number of emails I get from women writing in unhappy when they tried to go "ginger." ("Ginger" means red in Europe).

To Color or to Highlight, That's the Question

If you have a great base hair tone, you're better off with highlights. You don't want to mess with nature, you want to enhance it. But if your base color washes out your skin tone or is "blah," consider an all-over color.

Highlights look best when the stylist uses at least two different shades. Ask for more around your face, they can brighten your complexion.

Keep in mind that due to root growth, all-over coloring will need to be touched up every four to eight weeks, while highlights can last up to two or three months.

You're Going for Highlights, But Which Kind?

There are basically 4 types of highlights: basic foil highlights, baliage or "hair painting," chunking or "piecing" and lowlighting.

Foil highlights add strands of color to hair. You can get up to 5 different shades in hair to make it look more natural.

Baliage, or "hair painting," allows the stylist to add natural stripes of color to hair in large or smaller swaths. This is best for women with a great base color who want to go just a couple shades lighter.

Lowlighting allows the stylist to add darker shades to hair. This give color more contrast.

Should You Do It Yourself?

Home-color kits have come a long way in the past few years. They are perfect for busy people and those who want cut the cost of professional colorings.

(Let me share a little secret...I color my own hair and no one has ever been able to tell. Even when I had vibrant red, I had people asking me if it was my natural color. Pretty much I looked at them like they were nuts, because hello, my eyebrows did NOT match my hair. But when I'm dark? Totally can't tell that I color myself.)

Some great hair coloring kits include:

L'Oreal Natural Match Hair Color

Clairol Nice and Easy

Garnier Nutrisse

If You're Going With a Box, Stick With Semipermanent Color

Semipermanent colors wash out after a few washes, whereas permanent colors have to grow out.

Some home hair coloring tips: rub Vaseline around your hairline as a protective measure before applying color. To remove after coloring, rub a small amount of cream cleanser and wipe off with cotton balls. Always wear gloves and wrap an old dark-colored towel around your shoulders. Rinse your eyes with water if you get color in your eyes. If you forgot the Vaseline and stained your skin, rub the area with a cotton ball soaked in alcohol-based toner.

Gray, Gray, Go Away, Don't Come Again Another Day

Gray hair can be resilient to hair dye because of its coarse texture. If your hair is less than 15 percent gray, opt for a semi-permanent color that's a shade lighter than your natural color (or matches your color). Many women who are more than half gray opt to dye their hair blonde.

So You Hate Your Color? Don't Strangle the Stylist!

Don't be afraid to go back to the salon and talk to your stylist if you are not pleased with the results. There are all sorts of ways to fix color that's just not right. If you did it yourself with a semi-permanent color, look for a shampoo with "ammonium laurel sulfate" to wash away the color faster.

Your Color is Gorgeous, Now What?

Once you invest money in a hair color, you should protect your investment with the proper after-color care. Refresh your color by using a color-enhancing shampoo and conditioner once a week. These products deposit miniscule amounts of color into hair.

Uh-Oh. Your Roots Are Growing In

You can expect your color to last about 6 to 8 weeks before your roots begin to show. If your hair is colored, you'll want to get your roots touched up or do them yourself with a kit you can buy at the store like Clairol Nice and Easy Root Touch Ups. Be sure and test the color first before applying.

If you have highlights or lowlights, you can avoid having your whole head colored by asking your stylist to do your hairline, crown and part. A word of warning: Foil highlights require precise application and fixing dark roots is nearly impossible. Ask about easier to maintain highlighting techniques.

Here is a list of great products for color-treated hair:

When it comes to maintaining your expensive highlights or color, you should invest in quality products. Just as you would dry-clean an expensive dress rather than running it through your washing machine (even on the gentle cycle), it's worth spending a few extra dollars on quality shampoos and conditioners for your hair. Here, we rundown the best products on the market for color-treated hair and tell you why it's worth your buy.

Best Department Store Shampoo for Color-Treated Hair: Kerastase Bain Miroir

Kerastase's Bain Miroir shampoo has made it onto many "best" lists over the years, including InStyle Magazine at least two years in a row.

Specially formulated for color-treated hair, Bain Miroir works by coating strands, which protects them from the stripping some cheaper shampoos may cause. Bain Miroir also protects from UV rays and pollutants.

Another great (and less expensive) shampoo for color-treated hair: Matrix Biolage colorcaretherapie. Artec also makes a good shampoo. Go to L'Oreal's website to buy.

Best Drugstore Shampoo for Color-Treated Hair: John Frieda Collection Shampoo

Another popular shampoo on the best lists (Allure named it their favorite drugstore shampoo in the June 2008 issue), John Frieda Collection Shampoo comes in three different versions: Sheer Blonde, Brilliant Brunette and Radiant Red. [p] Why it's so popular: Your bathwater likely contains both chlorine and oxidized minerals which can strip hair of color. John Frieda Collection Shampoos are gentle cleansers that removes damaging elements, preventing for example, blonde hair from turning green, while keeping highlights bright and not brassy. Even better, this shampoo won't alter your hair color.

Best Mid-Price Shampoo: Matrix Biolage ColorCare Therapie Shampoo

Another popular favorite, Matrix Biolage ColorCare Shampoos have stood the test of time. Pick the one that best fits your hair color and enjoy the price (about $20 -- cheaper than the high-end Kerastase, but in a better range than the John Frieda shampoos).

Best Shampoo for Redheads: Frederic Fekkai's Rio Red

Brighten locks between colorings with Rio Red Shampoo, formulated just for redheads. Contains natural red henna and ginger for a rich color boost.

Best Do-It-Yourself Highlights: Clairol Nice'n Easy Highlights

Want blonde highlights, but not sure you want to pay upwards of $100 for them? Try Clairol's highlighting kit, which has combs that allow you to comb in the light streaks for natural-looking highlights.

Best At-Home Semi-Permanent Color Kit: Clairol Natural Instincts

A favorite among stylists (yes, stylists), you'll love this kit because it's known to cover gray hair and fades naturally. Bonus: It moisturizes while adding color.

Best for Highlights: John Frieda Spun Gold Highlighting Balm

Got chunky blonde highlights? Make them 'piecey' and pretty with this product which shapes and highlights blonde hair with micro-crystalline gold dust particles. A favorite among celeb stylists.

Best (Pricey) Conditioner for Color-Treated Hair: Kerastase Reflection

A favorite conditioner for color-treated hair, this creamy product helps maintain color, it doesn't strip like other cheaper conditioners on the market. It also has 'light-reflecting' qualities specially formulated for color-treated hair.

A great cheaper conditioner: Dove Moisture Rich Color Conditioner, which you can purchase at any drugstore.

Ems' House of Style, Episode 8

2011-11-23T08:00:00.000-07:00

It’s all in the hair, man!

No matter your face shape, there will be cuts that look best on you. Here's a quick guide of what to look for and what to avoid for five different face shapes.

Oval Face Shapes

The oval face is the most versatile face. You can pull off almost any look -- short or long, straight or wavy. But for the most flattering look on you, consider your best feature and highlight it with your haircut.

If you have gorgeous bone structure, consider an angular bob that shows off your chin. Great eyes? Blunt or side-swept bangs are a great bet.

Styles that are flattering and stylish: sophisticated bobs, bangs, long, beachy waves (think California surfer girl).

Avoid: Short layers that add height on top of your head. Aside from being dated, short layers can make your face appear long. If your hair is thick or curly, avoid a blunt cut. You'll look like a pyramid. If you have curly hair, short hair is generally a no-no (see "10 Secrets to Styling Curly Hair"). Try shoulder-length or longer to weigh down curls.

Celebs who share your face shape: Kate Hudson, Jessica Alba, Jada Pinkett Smith

Tools you can't live without: A great curling iron and flatiron to create waves and straighten your sleek locks.

Long or "Oblong" Face Shapes

Ahhh, the long face shape. The perfect haircut for us is one that doesn't drag down the face, yet adds width.

Styles that are flattering: Brow-skimming bangs (I plan to never go without them again). Chin-length bobs are also ideal for us because they create the illusion of width. Gwyneth Paltrow's shoulder-length bob is very flattering on a long face. Just make sure your stylist cuts the hair a bit shorter in the back so it doesn't look boring. Curls and waves work well because they add width to the face.

Be careful with long hair -- hair that is too long like Demi Moore's can drag down the face. Long layers work best with pieces hitting at the nose, the chin and the collarbone. Consider a v-shaped style where the length is mainly in the back, while the sides and front of your hair appear shorter. Also, consider adding wave or curls to the hair (find out how, here).

Avoid: Stay away from the extremes. Don't go longer than the collarbone and avoid a skull-capping super short cut, like this one.

Celebs who share your face shape: Sarah Jessica Parker, Ashlee Simpson, Liv Tyler, Giselle Bundchen

Styling tools you can't live without: A great volumizer. My favorite is Bumble and Bumble Holding Spray, I also love the hairspray Big Sexy Hair Flip it Over Full and Wild.

Round Face Shapes

Your goal is to create less volume around the face. You also want to minimize the appearance of roundness.

Styles that are flattering and stylish: Try cuts that fall just below the chin. Soft, graduated layers are a great bet because they make your face appear slimmer and tend to remove bulk and weight from the sides. Consider wispy and tapered ends. These de-emphasize the roundness of your face. Bangs are flattering, but keep them long or sideswept.

Avoid: One-length, blunt cuts if you have short hair. Curly, short hair is also a no-no. These only emphasize your roundness. Celebs who share your face shape: Fergie, Kate Bosworth, Oprah Winfrey, Cameron Diaz, Kirsten Dunst, Michelle Williams, Catherine Zeta-Jones

Tools you need: A great Boar's Hair brush to keep hair tame.

Square Face Shapes

If you have a square face, you'll want to play down your strong, angular jaw. Texture, in the form of curls or choppy ends, do this brilliantly. You can also get away with short, spiky cuts and long, sleek styles with layers that start at the jawline and continue downward.

Avoid: One-length bobs (especially chin-length) and blunt-cut bangs. These will make your face look even more square. Celebs who share your face shape: Gwyneth Paltrow, Demi Moore, Angelina Jolie, Isabella Rosellini and Rosario Dawson

Heart Face Shapes

Your pointy chin tends to be the focal point of your face. Draw attention to your eyes and cheekbones instead with sideswept bangs (like Reese Witherspoon pictured here), brow-grazing fringe, a strong part and hair that falls at or below your jawline. Have short hair? Keep top layers soft and long. Long hair? Go for long layers that graze your cheekbones.

Avoid: Short, blunt-cut bangs and harsh, choppy layers.

Celebs who share your face shape: Katie Holmes, Jennifer Lopez, Rachel Bilson, Reese Witherspoon, Ziyi Zhang

The beauty editors at Allure magazine recently confessed their "untold secrets." One of my favorites was their claim to the perfect haircut. They're right, this IS the most flattering haircut on almost every face type: a little shaggy and layered. How to get it? Here are some tips:

· Layer The key is not too layer too much in back. The best layers are left to the front and are meant to frame the face, but never go above the eye on short hair or above earlobes on long hair.

· Don't go too long Don't grow your hair more than a few inches below the collarbone. According to Allure's editors, few women over age 18 can get away with hair that falls below their breasts. (Sorry Gwyneth).

· Go for the "v-shape cut" Actually, this is my tip, not Allure's. If you have long hair, get your hair cut in the back in a v-shape. It allows for extra length without leaving you looking too "high school," plus it's a classic look for long hair that's universally considered sexy.

Now, lest you're left with a feeling that I think long hair is inappropriate past a certain age, let me lay that to rest. I do NOT think that. There are some older women who I'd really like to hurt if they cut their hair. If it's long and well-kept, keep it that way! There's no rule that says you have to go short after a certain age.

Now that we all know the right cut/style for our face shapes, perhaps it's time to schedule an appointment with the hairdresser! (Just don't do it quite yet...wait another week because it's part of a challenge coming up!)

Up next: Hair coloring tips

Ems' House of Style, Episode 7

2011-11-21T08:00:00.000-07:00

There is only one cure for gray hair. It was invented by a Frenchman. It is called the guillotine.

With that, let’s talk hair!

Let’s start with the basics, washing & drying. Simple, right? Wrong! Okay, it is simple, but it’s more involved than just scrubbing at your head and pulling out the hair dryer. Most of us think we have this all down pat, but for all we know, we might be wrong. After all, we have been washing our hair all our lives. How could we go wrong with something like washing our hair? We might be washing our hair the wrong way and contribute to its damage without actually knowing it.

So, what is the right way of washing the hair?
The first thing you should do is to comb the tangles out of the hair before you wet it so the hair would wash easily and the tangles would not worsen. And then, wet your hair thoroughly under the shower. You can use either warm or cold water if you like, but for best results, you can wet your hair with warm water to open the scale-like cuticles of the hair and wash all the oil and dirt off. And then, you can rinse your hair with cold water afterwards to close the cuticles and add to the shine of your hair.

Rinse your hair under the shower to rid it of the leave-on conditioner and styling aids you have used previously, using gentle strokes of your fingertips. Then, pour a dollop (about the size of a quarter) of shampoo in the palm of your hand. Rub your hands together, and then apply the shampoo to your scalp. Take note that you should put the shampoo on your scalp and not at the ends of your hair, as the shampoo would dry your hair's ends and cause it to weaken and split. Also, do not mix your hair all over your head as you shampoo because it will get all tangled up. After this, rinse the shampoo off.

Sometimes, we need to shampoo our hair for a second time. The purpose of the first shampoo is to clean the oil and dirt off; the second shampoo is supposed to let the shampoo treat our hair. So, repeat the process, but let the shampoo sit on for around a couple of minutes. Rinse the hair completely after this.

To get the excess water off your hair, just squeeze the water out. Do not pull or tug at the hair because the hair is at its most delicate when it is soaked. When the excess water is out, apply a dollop of conditioner and apply it along the hairline, the nape and the ends of the hair. Pile your hair then inside a shower cap and let the conditioner stay there for around five minutes. Then rinse it off completely.

The process described here does seem tedious and time-consuming. But remember, having great hair takes time and effort. And it is definitely worth it for a picture perfect hair.

Here are some quick tips to make a wash last so that you don’t spend all your time in the shower. Although, that is nice sometimes. Or even better, an aromatherapy bath with lavender oil. But I digress.

Make it last:

You can brush a dry shampoo or powder through your hair in between washes for a clean feeling.

Don’t forget the updo trick! Tease your hair at the crown a bit for volume and then twist it into a chignon at the nape of your neck. A high ponytail will also look great. Whatever you do, DO NOT leave it down. It’ll look lank and greasy, and we don’t want any female Snapes here!

If you’re going casual, a hat will do the trick as well! Just avoid the do-wrap because those = hideous.

Now on to drying:

Should the hair be blow dried or air dried?

It is a matter of preference, actually. Some people do not have much time to devote to styling their hair, or want to achieve the maximum styling they can get for their hair, so they opt for blow-drying it. On the other hand, there are some people who think that blow-drying is a waste of electricity and is the quickest way of damaging the hair, so they opt to have it air dried.

Which is better, you may ask?

Both ways of drying the hair have their advantages and disadvantages, and there are proper and improper ways of doing both. Read on and find out what these are.

Air drying.

Air drying is usually done by people who have short and low-maintenance hairstyles, or by people with curly hair. There are also people who have long hair yet have their hair air dry, as air drying does not subject the hair to excessive heat. The hair is not as susceptible to damage as hair that is blow dried.

If you are going to have your hair air dried, it is very important to remember that the hair is at its weakest when it is wet. So, take care not to rub your hair dry with the use of a towel. The friction caused by rubbing the hair with a towel will make the hair brittle and eventually break. Rather than rubbing it, you should instead blot the moisture out of your hair with the towel. Also, be careful not to tug or pull at your hair that much when it is still wet. Once the water is blotted out of the hair, fluff it out with your fingers.

Blow Drying.

Blow drying the hair is the most convenient way of doing it, and because most people live fast-paced lives, blow drying the hair is the way most people want to do it. Moreover, drying the hair using a blower adds volume to the hair. But inasmuch that blow drying is very convenient, it is also dangerous to the hair, especially if overdone. It can make the hair very brittle.

If you blow dry your hair, make sure that it is not soaking. Blot the water out with a towel first. Do not hold the dryer too close to your head; keep it at least six inches away from your hair and move the dryer constantly around your head. Protect the outer strands of your hair from being over-dried by bending over and blow drying your hair with your hair hanging upside down. Also, try not to dry your hair completely with the blow dryer. Stop while the hair is still slightly damp.

Whether you air dry your hair or you blow dry it is completely your own choice based on your own lifestyle and preferences. But whatever you do, always remember that the hair is fragile. Be careful while handling it.

Now let’s talk damage. I know! It hurts, but we have to do it.

Split ends (or trichoptlosis) are the bane of every self-respecting woman’s life! They happen when the protective cuticle has been stripped away from the ends of hair fibers. Split ends are more likely to develop in dry or brittle hair, and typical causes of damage include excessive dying or vigorous brushing.

Once the hair cuticle is removed, it is impossible to replace. Typically the hair splits into two or three strands, and can be as long or two to three centimeters in length. The best treatment is to cut off the split end of the damaged fiber.

But you don’t necessarily have to go to the salon every week to keep your split ends in check. In the sixties and seventies, woman used to burn off their split ends themselves! Ouch! I’m sure you’ll agree that’s a little excessive. There are easier ways to get rid of your dead ends before they split further... DIY (do-it-yourself) hair trims. Don’t be afraid, everyone does it!

These DIY hair trimming tips are for woman who are happy with their hair; for those who don’t need a re-style, but simply want to freshen things up with a “homegrown” sort of look. If you are in any doubt, leave it for the professionals!

To remove split ends:

· Take small sections of hair and carefully twist them in a gentle downward motion.
Any split ends will automatically stick out.

· Carefully snip into the twist with sharp scissors. Don’t cut right through; just cut into the thickness to remove the damaged cuticles and give a natural layered effect.

· Be careful to cut roughly the same amount from each twist.

Remember, sometimes the simplest, and least expensive, ideas are the best.

You ARE what you eat…

Foods that seem to be harmful to your hair

There are some foods that you should avoid and replace them with fresh fruits and vegetables.

Why? To ensure that the hair that is forming beneath the surface of your scalp is healthy.

So, the foods to avoid include too many sweets, chocolate, cakes and cookies. Unfortunately, these favorites simply don't help your hair.

Dandruff removal/prevention

Dandruff is a common chronic scalp condition, which is marked by itching and flaking of the skin on your scalp. Although dandruff isn't contagious and is rarely serious, it can be embarrassing and sometimes difficult to treat.

The good news is that dandruff can usually be controlled. Mild cases of dandruff may need nothing more than daily shampooing with a gentle cleanser. More stubborn cases of dandruff often respond to medicated shampoos.

Symptoms

For most teens and adults, dandruff symptoms are easy to spot: white, oily looking flakes of dead skin that dot your hair and shoulders and an itchy, scaling scalp.

A type of dandruff called cradle cap also can affect babies. This disorder, which causes a scaling, crusty scalp, is most common in newborns, but it can occur anytime during infancy. Although it can be alarming for parents, cradle cap isn't dangerous and usually clears up on its own by the time a baby is a year old.

When to see a doctor

Most cases of dandruff don't require a doctor's care. But if you're still scratching your head after several weeks of experimenting with over-the-counter (OTC) dandruff shampoos or if your scalp becomes red or swollen, see your doctor or dermatologist. You may have seborrheic dermatitis or another condition that resembles dandruff. Most often, your doctor can diagnose the problem simply by looking at your hair and scalp.

Causes

Dandruff can have several causes, including:

Dry skin. Simple dry skin — the kind you get during winter when the air is cold and rooms are overheated — is the most common cause of itchy, flaking skin. Flakes from dry skin are generally smaller and less oily than those from other causes of dandruff.

Irritated, oily skin (seborrheic dermatitis). This condition, a frequent cause of dandruff, is marked by red, greasy skin covered with flaky white or yellow scales. Seborrheic dermatitis affects not only your scalp but also other areas rich in oil glands, such as your eyebrows, the sides of your nose and the backs of your ears, your breastbone, your groin area, and sometimes your armpits.

Not shampooing often enough. If you don't regularly wash your hair, oils and skin cells from your scalp can build up, causing dandruff.

Psoriasis. This skin disorder causes an accumulation of dead skin cells that form thick silvery scales. Psoriasis commonly occurs on your knees, elbows and trunk, but it can also affect your scalp.

Eczema. If you have eczema on your scalp, it's possible you could develop dandruff.

Sensitivity to hair care products (contact dermatitis). Sometimes sensitivities to certain hair care products or hair dyes can cause a red, itchy, scaling scalp. Shampooing too often or using too many styling products also may irritate your scalp, causing dandruff.

A yeast-like fungus (malassezia). Malassezia lives on the scalps of most healthy adults without causing problems. But sometimes it grows out of control, feeding on the oils secreted by your hair follicles. This can irritate the skin on your scalp and cause more skin cells to grow. The extra skin cells die and fall off, clumping together with oil from your hair and scalp, making them appear white, flaky and visible in your hair or on your clothes.

Exactly what causes an overgrowth of malassezia isn't known, although having too much oil on your scalp; changes in your hormones; stress; illness; neurological disorders, such as Parkinson's disease; a suppressed immune system; not shampooing often enough; and extra sensitivity to the malassezia fungus may contribute to the development of dandruff.

Treatments and drugs

Dandruff can almost always be controlled, but dandruff treatment may take a little patience and persistence. In general, mild dandruff can often be helped by daily cleansing with a gentle shampoo to reduce oiliness and skin cell buildup.

When regular shampoos fail, over-the-counter (OTC) dandruff shampoos may succeed. But dandruff shampoos aren't all alike, and you may need to experiment until you find one that works best for you. Dandruff shampoos are classified according to the medication they contain:

Zinc pyrithione shampoos (such as Selsun Salon, Head & Shoulders). These contain the antibacterial and antifungal agent zinc pyrithione, which can reduce the fungus on your scalp that can cause dandruff and seborrheic dermatitis.

Tar-based shampoos (such as Neutrogena T/Gel). Coal tar, a byproduct of the coal manufacturing process, helps conditions such as dandruff, seborrheic dermatitis and psoriasis by slowing how quickly skin cells on your scalp die and flake off.

Shampoos containing salicylic acid (such as Ionil T). These "scalp scrubs" help eliminate scale, but they may leave your scalp dry, leading to more flaking. Using a conditioner after shampooing can help relieve dryness.

Selenium sulfide shampoos (such as Selsun Blue). These shampoos slow your skin cells from dying and may also reduce malassezia. Because they can discolor blond, gray or chemically colored hair, be sure to use them only as directed and to rinse well after shampooing.

Ketoconazole shampoos (such as Nizoral). Ketoconazole is a broad-spectrum antifungal agent that may work when other shampoos fail. It's available over-the-counter as well as by prescription.

Try using one of these shampoos daily until your dandruff is controlled, then cut back to two or three times a week. If one type of shampoo works for a time and then seems to lose its effectiveness, try alternating between two types of dandruff shampoos. Be sure to leave the shampoo on for at least five minutes — this gives the ingredients time to work.

If you've shampooed faithfully for several weeks and there's still a dusting of dandruff on your shoulders, talk to your doctor or dermatologist. You may need a prescription-strength shampoo or more aggressive treatment with a steroid lotion.

Lifestyle and home remedies

In addition to regular shampooing, you can take steps to reduce your risk of developing dandruff:

Learn to manage stress. Stress affects your overall health, making you susceptible to a number of conditions and diseases. It can even help trigger dandruff or worsen existing symptoms.

Shampoo often. If you tend to have an oily scalp, daily shampooing may help prevent dandruff.

Cut back on styling products. Hair sprays, styling gels, mousses and hair waxes can all build up on your hair and scalp, making them oilier.

Eat a healthy diet. A diet that provides enough zinc, B vitamins and certain types of fats may help prevent dandruff.

Get a little sun. Sunlight may be good for dandruff. But because exposure to ultraviolet light damages your skin and increases your risk of skin cancer, don't sunbathe. Instead, just spend a little time outdoors. And be sure to wear sunscreen on your face and body.

Next time we’ll talk haircuts and what works best!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 6

2011-11-19T08:00:00.000-07:00

You know how to pick, now how do you apply?

Foundation:

Using either a sponge, brush, or your fingertips, apply dots of foundation on your forehead, nose, cheeks, and chin. Blend in circular motions until fully blended. Make sure to extend over your jawline so that there is not a line separating your face from your neck.

Powder:

If you’re going to use powder, use a large brush to apply evenly over face and neck. Blend carefully so you don’t have lines.

Eye shadow:

The following steps are followed in the application of eye shadow shades:

· Using a fine, blunt-ended brush, gently apply the base color (2^nd darkest color) to the entire lid from the inside to the outside corner and from the base of the lashes to the eyelid crease.

· If the eyes need extra definition, a deeper (darkest color) shade is blended into the crease line. This gives depth to the eyes.

· The brow bone is highlighted with a light shade (lightest color, applied very sparingly). This gives the eyes a wide, open look. The color is applied to the most prominent area and blended up towards the brow and down to where the contour curves down, toward the eyelid creases.

· Before using them on the lids, always test the colors on the back of the hand to test the intensity. You can use even 3-4 colors, provided they are blended well. Remember pale tones emphasize, while deep sooty shades define.

See THIS diagram for details:

Eye Liner:

· Liquid Liner:

Test, on the back of your hand, the amount of pressure you should apply. Unless you are a real artist, it is best to steady your elbow on a flat surface. Work from the inside of the eye to the outside corner and keep the line light and even. If you stop at the corner of the eyes, the effect will be round and wide-eyed; if you continue the line and sweep it up and out, you would get a more exotic look. Finally smudge the edges with a cotton bud to soften them.

· Pencil Liner:

Pencils can be used in the same manner to define or extend the shape of the eyes, but they give a softer, more natural line. Keep them sharpened and ready for use, as blunted or broken points can spoil the whole effect.

Mascara:

For best results, first look down and brush the top lashes from the roots downwards, then look up and brush the top lashes upwards. Then still looking up, brush color on the lower lashes. (Guess what-you don’t have to open your mouth to apply mascara. I know, it’s tough. But try it. It’s actually kind of fun and feels like a major accomplishment.) Wait for a minute for them to dry, and similarly apply a second coat. Finally brush with a clean dry brush, to separate the lashes. I use a volumizer and a lengthener together to create the look I want.

Correcting Eyes using Makeup:

You can improve your eye shape by experimenting with color and texture. Identify the shape of your eyes and follow the tips given:

· For Small Eyes: Pluck the eyebrows fine to give maximum eye area. Use a little shadow under the lower lashes as well as on the top of the lid. Blend the shadow on the upper lid from the centre outwards, curving it upwards towards the brow in the shape of a wing. Line both the lids, extending the meeting line fairly out, to increase the length of the eyes. Mascara both the upper and lower lashes, using two coats on the outer lashes only.

· For Wide-Set Eyes: Pencil the eyebrows close to each other. Add a little shadow onto the bridge of the nose or blend your shadow close to the corner of the nose and stop at the centre of the upper lid. To make the eyes appear a little closer, start outlining the upper lid from the inner corner of the eye, bringing it near the nose ridge, leaving just the width of one eye in between the two eyes. Continue the line towards the outer corner but not quite extending up to it.

Blush:

I use a highlighting cream on the top of my cheekbones to draw attention to that area. It makes anyone look like they’ve got high cheekbones, but it’s not necessary. If you want to use it, dot a bit on your cheekbones, and blend in and up towards the tops of your ears.

To apply blush, start on the apples of your cheeks. If you’re not sure what those are, smile with your mouth closed. The apples are the bulgey part of your cheeks.

Sweep your blush on the apples and then upwards towards your hairline, in a slightly slanted line. Blend down so that you don’t have any rough edges. You don’t want to look like you’ve got stripes going on!

You can use either powder or cream blush. Be sure to use the cream sparingly, as it goes on thicker. Blend with a sponge or your fingertips, making sure that it blends well and doesn’t leave lines. Have you noticed that not having lines is a very crucial part of this?

Try this link for a diagram:

Lipstick:

If you’re going to use a lipliner, DO NOT make it darker than your lipstick. You don’t want to look like a gang banger’s girlfriend. Use a shade that exactly or closely matches your lipstick. Line the outer edges of your lips, and then fill in with the liner. Apply the lipstick over the top and blot with a tissue if necessary.

Now you’re all fabulously made up, so we’ll move on to hair care next! Stay tuned!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 5

2011-11-17T08:00:00.000-07:00

Makeup colors

Many women are clueless when it comes to choosing the perfect color for their makeup. Some try to follow the trends, but they do not realize that what may be the in color for the season may not look good on them. Some use colors that were recommended to them by their mothers, sisters and girlfriends. While advice from your intimate circle of females is always well-meaning, some pieces of advice are just meant to be ignored. Some stick to the idea of matching the colors of their facial palette with the outfit they have on. However, that idea does not work all the time.

The important thing that we women should always keep in mind is that the colors of our makeup should complement the colors of our eyes and skin tones. There are colors that look great on women with darker skin tones but look horrible when used by a woman with fair, pink-toned skin.

How do you determine what your undertones are?

Pink (Light) - If you are very fair, burn before you tan, and your skin has pink or porcelain under tones you should choose pink.

Yellow (Light or Medium) – If you are Caucasian and have beige or yellow undertones you should choose Yellow. Asian or Light Mixed Race also fall into Yellow. Most Caucasian women fall into Yellow so if you are unsure select Yellow, like Lauren.

Olive (Medium) – If you are Mediterranean, Latino, a Fair-skinned African American, or dark mixed-race, then you should choose Olive.

Brown (Dark) – If you are African American, deep complexioned Indian or any other dark skin color then you should choose Brown.

Why is this important?

With the correct colors (in cosmetics and clothing) :

Your skin tone will appear radiant and glowing

Your eyes will appear brighter and clearer

Your hair will reflect highlights

You will hear compliments - such as "You look great”!

With the wrong colors (in cosmetics and clothing) :

Your skin tone will appear tired and drained

Your eyes may appear shadowed, dark circles

Even your teeth can appear with a slight yellow hue

You will hear comments - such as "You look tired” "Do you feel OK?"

How do you determine skin tone?

Step 1

Flip over your arm and look at the veins. Veins that appear greenish indicate yellow undertones which means that your skin tone is warm. Veins that appear to be more blue indicate blue undertones which means your skin tone is cool. Determine if your tone is warm or cool.

Step2

Pull your hair back into a pony tail or use a head band to keep all of the hair off of your face. Wash your face and then place a white towel around your neck and shoulders. The pure white cloth will reflect skin undertones. If your face looks yellow next to the white towel you have a warm skin tone and if it looks more blue then you have a cool skin tone.

Step3

Observe the effect that gold and silver jewelry have on the way your skin looks. This is a helpful way to determine your skin tone. If you look better in silver jewelry you have a cool skin tone, and if you look better in gold then you have a warm skin tone.

Step4

Look at the natural color of your hair and eyes. People with cool tones usually have blue, green, or grey eyes with blond, black, or brown hair. Those with warm skin tones often have brown, black, or hazel eyes with black, brown, blond, red, or strawberry blond hair.

So, what color should we pick when we are choosing our makeup?

You may have heard that only certain people can wear certain colors. This might be true for things like electric blue, which we should all avoid anyway, but there is a tone of every color that every woman can wear.

Let’s take me, for example. I have olive skin, hazel eyes, and dark hair. I used to be terrified of wearing blue eye shadow. I didn’t want to look like an 80’s throwback. I thought I could only wear earth tones. That fear held for years until I finally discovered the perfect shade for me. For blue, I use Wet N’ Wild Mega Eyes in Island Blues. The tones are deeper and really make the green in my eyes pop. I pair it with navy eyeliner, pink blush, and black mascara, for a look that stands out.

I also use their Amazon Greens, which makes my eyes look all green with gold flecks. It’s one of my favorite looks. I pair this one with a pine green eyeliner, coral blush, and brown mascara. The trick is making the colors complement each other and you.

Now, if I’m using their Venetian Violet pallet, I’ll pair it with a plum liner, pink blush, and black mascara. If I’m using their Belgian Chocolate pallet, I’ll use a skin tone shimmer blush, chocolate eyeliner, and black mascara. Wait! You say black mascara with brown shadow? Absolutely. It makes the look complete and it really stands out.

Okay. So if you’re planning on wearing earth tones for your shadow, what colors should you pick to complement them? Let’s assume for a minute that you’re a fair-skinned blonde with blue eyes. You might think that earth tones mean only brown. Guess again! Let’s put you in a slate grey pallet (try Revlon’s Sultry Smoke or Nude Elements), and use a charcoal liner and black mascara. Pink blush will make your eyes pop even more. (when I say pop, I mean stand out…not the scary Tyra Banks fierce eyes. Those aren’t fierce at all. They’re psycho.) If you’re looking for a day look, keep it light. Save the smoky eyes for evening. Although, sometimes it’s just plain fun to put on a smoky eye for the office. People take notice, and not in a bad way!

Violet shades: Just pair it with a plum liner, pink blush, and black or plum mascara for a totally fab look.

Grey shades: The tone will differ, depending on whether you’ve a light skin-tone or dark skin-tone. Like goes with like, so unless you’re going out for an evening, keep the color tone in sync with your skin tone. A charcoal works wonders for a blue eye, while slate is gorgeous on hazel.

Blue: leave the electric blues at home. Or throw them away. I think I’d throw them away. Stick to ocean or jewel tones, and you can’t go wrong. Try pairing a blue shadow with a brown mascara. It’ll make your blue eyes amazing!

Green: Again, no neon please. The 80’s really should never have happened, fashion-wise. Let’s assume here that they didn’t. Jewel tones are gorgeous, as well as tree tones. Green shadow is pretty amazing if you pair it with a purple or gold liner or mascara (just purple, not gold mascara-that’s going too far). Just keep them subtle and dark.

Pink: Stay away from baby pink, and go more for the mauve-y colors. They’re a lot more versatile. People with pink skin undertones look completely amazing in pinks, and people with yellow skin undertones do too…they’ll just take a more coral approach.

For blush: DO NOT WEAR BIG STRIPES. There, I said it. Pick a color that complements your skin tone. Again, pink undertones look completely fab with pink blushes. Yellow undertones look amazing in coral blushes.

The trick is to work WITH what you’ve naturally got. Makeup is meant to be an enhancer, not an entirely new you. You’ve seen those women, right? The ones who look like they’re wearing a mask? We SO do not want to be those women. Take what you’ve got and work with it, not against it. Play up your features, don’t overshadow them. Next time, I’ll talk about the ‘how-to’ aspect of makeup. Stay tuned!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 4

2011-11-15T08:00:00.000-07:00

Makeup!

Hello ladies!

This week, I’ve been test-driving some products for you, in the hopes that my slam dunks will aid you in the quest for fabulosity. Before you die wondering, yes, my makeup bag is actually a cabinet and it’s completely jam-packed with products. I’m looking at expanding into another room soon. For reals.

First, let’s talk mascara. I’ve tested two brands this week, Revlon 3D Extreme Mascara, and Maybelline New York Lash Stiletto.

Revlon 3D Extreme Mascara: the concept is fantastic. The theory is that it will create volume and the appearance of super long lashes. In practice, I think it delivers on the volume but not the length. It would be really difficult to create a brush that can do both without clumping, so really they should stick to one or the other. We can always layer!

For first time, or inexperienced users, I would NOT recommend this particular mascara. The brush is short and stubby, and it takes a practiced hand to make it non-clumpy. If you’re experienced, give it a try! I like it especially on my bottom lashes, as it does plump them up nicely.

Maybelline Lash Stiletto: not only does this mascara come in a really cool stiletto-like tube, but it actually delivers on its promise of long, to-die for lashes! The brush is perfectly designed for length. Just layer it with a volumizer, and you’re set with fabulous lashes. It doesn’t clump and it comes off easily.

This one is good for beginners OR veterans.

Both are about evenly priced. They usually run about $7.00-$8.00 a tube.

Now let’s move on to eyeshadow. Again, I’ve tested two more brands. I tried Wet N’ Wild Mega Eyes shadow in Island Blues, Amazon Greens, Mojave Mauves, and Belgian Chocolates. I also tried Revlon Colorstay 12 Hour Eyeshadow Quad in Sandstorm, Starlight, Nude Elements, Priceless Metals, and Blushed Wines.

As far as eyeshadows go, I’ll recommend both brands. I LOVE the colors and the way they’re perfectly matched. The shadow also stays on, and I didn’t experience any melting or fading.

They’re easy to use, come with brushes, and are small enough to fit in a compact. You can’t lose either way!

The Wet N’ Wild compacts are about $2.99 each, while the Revlon compacts run about $4.59-$4.99.

(I’ll discuss color and tone in a later episode…this one is just product reviews.)

Finally, I tried a couple different blushes. CoverGirl Cheekers in Natural Shimmer, Rose Silk, and Snow Plum, and Revlon Matte Powder Blush in Barely Buff.

The CoverGirl seemed to have a better ‘stick’ element on my cheeks. It didn’t fade and it didn’t melt. The color blended nicely, and seemed to match my skin undertones much better than the Revlon.

The Revlon color was a lot more vibrant and would definitely last a lot longer, as you don’t have to use very much. It’s a little more pricey than the CoverGirl, so my vote goes to CoverGirl for blush.

I’ll keep my eyes on new products and review them for you!

Tune in next time, when we discuss color and tone!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 3

2011-11-13T08:00:00.000-07:00

Focus on foundation:

First, a disclaimer. Regardless of what the "experts" might say, foundation is not essential. In fact, on some people, it’s detrimental! It can really detract from natural beauty, or it can really enhance what you’ve got. The trick is determining when to wear it. Don’t wear it just to wear it.

I don’t wear foundation every day. I wear it on special occasions only. My sister wears it every day. We have very different skin types and hers benefits from the daily usage. Mine wouldn’t.

Now let’s talk about the types of foundation out there. There are tons to choose from, so you can find whatever suits your needs the best!

Stick Foundation: This is a cream foundation and concealer in one. It works well for normal to dry skin. It will provide more coverage and it is quick to apply.

Liquid Foundation: Most common foundation because it works for practically everyone. Liquid foundation gives good coverage and there are many formulas to choose from. A majority of cosmetic companies have different forms of liquid foundation for normal, dry, combination and oily.

Cream Foundation: This can be used as a concealer and a foundation because it gives great coverage. Cream foundation is mostly used on dry skin because it is thicker and a heavier consistency.

Mousse Foundation: Mousse foundation is a cream foundation in a whipped consistency. It gives a lighter coverage. It is great for older skin because mousse foundation doesn't settle in fine lines.

Tinted Moisturizer: Tinted moisturizer is a moisturizer with a little color to it. It gives little coverage.

Cream to Powder: It is used mostly for oily skin and is a fast alternative to liquid foundation.

Powder Foundation: Powder foundation is great for younger girls just starting out on makeup. Some give a sheer coverage, others will provide medium coverage. I like using this form in the summer because it is so light and easy to apply.

Spray Foundation: This is a fairly new product to the market and has become famous in part by Carmindy from TLC's What Not to Wear. Spray Foundation comes in an aerosol can and can be sprayed on a sponge or directly to the skin.

How to choose:

Foundation needs to be as close to your skin tone as is humanly possible. It’s painfully obvious when someone is wearing a totally wrong foundation. If possible, test the foundation by making a line along your jawbone of 3 very close shades. Choose the one that nearly perfectly matches your skin tone. Places like Wal-Mart won’t let you do that, so hold the bottle up to your face in front of a mirror and see how well it matches. Even better if you can do it in natural light, but obviously that’s not going to work everywhere. You don’t want to go walking out of the store with makeup in hand!

If possible, choose a foundation with a high SPF. If you use a moisturizer with a high SPF, you don’t need to double up, but make sure that one of them has it.

Make sure when you apply it, that you blend carefully. Don’t leave lines or streaks on your face or I promise that people will mock you behind your back. I’d tell you though. And then I’d help you blend! Also, it’s important to NOT stop at your jaw line. Blend down onto your neck for seamless transition. You don’t want your face and your neck to appear to be two different colors!

Here are some good brands (I’ve tried them all…they cover beautifully, and they don’t cake):

CoverGirl TruBlend

CoverGirl Continuous Wear

Maybelline Dream Matte Mousse

Maybelline Superstay Silky

Revlon ColorStay

Revlon Age Defying

Max Factor Age Renew

Max Factor Flawless Perfect

L’Oreal Visible Lift

L’Oreal Infallible

Tip: when using powder foundation, tread lightly! It’s a lot more likely to be cakey than liquid foundation, so use sparingly. You don’t have to layer it on. A light dusting will do!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 2

2011-11-11T08:00:00.000-07:00

Here we go for episode 2 of Ems’ House of Style!

Skin Care, Part II

Now that we’ve talked about the basic products and supplies you should have, let’s talk about how to USE them!

We’ll start with cleansing, since it’s the most important step. Remember that we’re NOT using hand soap on our faces.

Start with lukewarm water and splash your face. Use about a dime size portion of your cleanser, and lather it onto your face using gentle circular motions, being sure to get your neck and the area under your ears. The circular motions promote circulation, which leads to healthy, lovely skin. Rinse with lukewarm water carefully. Don’t leave residue behind or your skin will feel greasy or sticky.

Be sure that you have a cleanser that fits your skin type. A cleanser that works well on oily skin will NOT work on dry skin. Most brands that you can pick up at Wal-Mart will have different skin type formulas.

You can use the cleanser on your eyes. Most of them are gentle (unless you’ve got one for severe acne, don’t use that on your eyes) enough that they won’t irritate your eyes. I use mine to remove makeup, so that I don’t have to have a separate makeup remover.

Pat your face dry with a soft towel. DO NOT RUB. Rubbing will cause micro-tears, which could lead to infection and breakouts.

Ever wonder why men’s skin tends to be nicer looking than women’s in a lot of cases? It’s because they exfoliate daily through shaving! Exfoliating is the most commonly missed step, but it’s crucial for good skin health. You will notice a huge difference if you start exfoliating twice a week. Women don’t need to do it any more often than that.

What the exfoliating scrubs do is remove the top layer of dead skin cells that lead to a dull complexion. Use a scrub with tiny grains, as large grains can tear your skin. You don’t want that.

My favorite is St. Ives Apricot scrub. You can also mix sugar, honey, egg whites, and water to make your own scrub. It just doesn’t smell as nice.

Now let’s move on to moisturizing. At least once a day will seal moisture into your skin and leave you looking rested and healthy. You won’t need to even think about costly cosmetic procedures to plump or anything because you’ll already have great-looking skin!

Be sure to pick a moisturizer that's formulated for your skin type as well. There are special ones for oily skin (Yes, you CAN moisturize!), dry skin, and combination skin.

*aside...how do you tell what type your skin is? Look at the skin in your T-Zone, (The T-zone is the part of your face consisting of the forehead, nose and the area around your mouth, including the chin. It is so named because it's shaped like the letter 'T') and determine if it looks oily, dry, or a combination of both.*

Your skin will tell you when it’s ready. If it feels tight and dry, by all means, baby it! Give in to its demands! Slather some moisturizer on your face and give your skin the care it deserves!

You don’t want to over-moisturize, however, as this will lead to clogged pores and breakouts. If your skin doesn’t feel tight or dry, it’s probably okay until night. (Always moisturize at night)

For the eyes: do you have to have a special eye cream? No. Don’t spend the extra money! Your regular moisturizer will do just fine.

Finally, sunscreen. CRUCIAL!!! The facial skin is some of the most prone to UV damage, wrinkles, and skin cancer. DO NOT skip this step. Whether the SPF protection is in your moisturizer or your foundation, put it on.

Your sunscreen needs to have one of these three ingredients as an active ingredient: titanium dioxide, zinc oxide, or Parson 1789.

Now let’s talk blemishes. Ugh. Maybe one of my least favorite subjects ever. But crucial. Because as women, we’re expected to look perfect night and day, and never have a blemish. Although, once I saw one of the Backstreet Boys on the street with a ginormous zit. Hah! They do get them! Anyway, that’s neither here nor there.

With that, let’s talk concealer. This technically goes in the makeup section, which will be coming next week, but since it’s also part of skin care, I’ll cover it here.

Here is your blemish Bible:

Toothpaste

Yellow concealer stick

Green concealer stick

Skin tone concealer

Q Tips

Hemorrhoid cream

First, toothpaste. Never knew it would come in handy for more than your teeth, did you? Daub a bit on a zit at night, wash it off in the morning, and it’ll be smaller. Plus you have a lovely minty smell with you all night.

Yellow concealer is to be used under your eyes, and gets rid of the dark circles. Well, doesn’t get rid of them, but it masks them and makes your eyes look bright.

Green concealer cancels out redness, and is perfect for the skin under your nose (especially during a cold when you’re constantly blowing) and zits that haven’t reached the white zone yet. Blend it well though, because you don’t want to go out with green spots on your face. People might think you’re ill.

Skin tone concealer goes on top of the others, and is blended in (without seams) to create a smooth, blemish-free look.

Ah, you say, but what if your mondo zit has already reached the whitehead stage? All is not lost. That’s where the Q Tips come in handy. Do not, I repeat, DO NOT squeeze a zit between your fingernails. You’ll cause infection, possible skin tears, and redness all around. Instead, dip a Q Tip in some rubbing alcohol and press the fingertip (not the nail) gently against one edge of the zit. Roll the Q Tip over the zit, exerting pressure, but not too hard. It should pop nice and neat without a huge red fingernail mark. You have the added bonus of killing all your germs with the rubbing alcohol as well.

Now, hemorrhoid cream. What on earth could this possibly be used for?! I keep a tube handy, and not for the usual reasons. If you tend to get puffy eyes, daub some of this baby under your eyes and work it in gently. It’ll reduce puffiness. After all, that’s what it does. You can also put it on a zit in place of toothpaste and it’ll draw it to a head. Oh, the things you pick up as you go!

Above all, DO NOT PICK AT YOUR FACE!

Ems' House of Style, Episode 1

2011-11-09T13:20:00.000-07:00

**taps microphone…testing…is this thing even on?**

Hello and welcome to the first edition of Ems' House of Style, hosted by Living Fabulous! Today we’ll start at the bottom with the first of a two-part series on skin care, and we’ll work our way up from there throughout the next few months.

So, without further ado, let’s talk about skin!

Here’s my list of absolute essentials:

8 hours of sleep per night

At least 8 cups of water per day

Cotton balls

Q-tips

Cleanser containing 2% salicylic acid

Facial Moisturizer

Exfoliator

Hand and body lotion

Chapstick

Here are some things that are nice to have, but not absolutely critical:

Toner

Heated masks

Peel masks

Ice pack

Tea bags

Cucumbers

Mary Kay Satin Hands J

Baby powder

· Now let’s have some fun!

Not all of us were blessed with celebrity skin. Let’s face it. We have breakouts, rashes, wrinkles, and no endless supply of staff members and money to take care of it all. That’s okay, because we have our own cheats that we can use.

We’ll start with my list of non-essentials and tricks you can use to substitute.

Toner: I like this because it’s an extra protection against breakouts. The best toners are 2% salicylic acid, and are gentle on your skin. I use Clean N’ Clear Gentle Astringent Toner.

The other benefit of using a toner is that it closes down your pores and makes them appear smaller. Always good! However, here’s my secret: a splash of cold water will do the exact same thing, if that’s the benefit that you’re after.

Heated masks are great because they cleanse AND feel great. You can buy these in stores like Wal-Mart or Kmart for really cheap. If you don’t want to spend the money (good girl!), take ¼ cup rolled oats and mix with ½ tsp milk and 1 tsp honey. Heat that in the microwave until it’s warm…not hot. You don’t want hot oats on your face. Rub that all over, let it sit for 15 minutes, and then wash off. Your skin will love you more than your mom does.

Peel masks are just plain cool. They’re cheap at Wal-Mart or Kmart and they are fun to peel off! I don’t have a recipe for a peel mask, but you can crush up cucumbers and mix them with honey for a similar effect.

Ice packs/tea bags/cucumbers are all used to reduce under-eye puffiness. We all get it. Don’t be ashamed! My preference is cucumbers, but they don’t store long. If you don’t want to use a regular ice pack, fill a ziplock bag with uncooked rice and stick it in your freezer, then place on your eyes. Puffiness is almost instantly reduced!

(Another helpful tip: Preparation-H is fantastic for under-eye bags. I know, it sounds gross, but just don't use it for the intended use. Get a tube just for your eyes. Trust me. Your eyes will thank you.)

Mary Kay Satin Hands…ahhh…heaven. Seriously, if heaven came in tubes, this is what it would look like. Downside is that it’s expensive. Upside is that you can duplicate it! First, mix sugar and honey until you have a thick paste. Rub that on your hands and let it sit for a few minutes. Then (without rinsing!) put a bit of hand soap on your hands and rub that in. Let it sit. Rinse that off, and then follow with a deep moisturizing lotion. Your hands will be your best friends forever.

Baby powder is just handy to have on hand. Sprinkle it in your shoes, and it’ll help keep your heels soft, and it smells better than baking soda!

Now on to the essentials. Remember, these are non-negotiable!

8 hours of sleep per night seems like a pipe dream at times. Schedule it in though, and you’ll be amazed at how wonderful you feel and how bright your skin looks! It’s not even that hard. 10-6, bingo.

8 cups of water. ABSOLUTELY ESSENTIAL!! Your skin craves moisture and drinking water is the absolute BEST way to prevent breakouts. (that and washing your face at night, but we’ll get into that) Your skin will look fabulous, you’ll look rested, and people will beg to know your designer secrets.

Cotton balls are extremely useful for applying toner or dabbing on moisturizer if you don’t want to use your fingers. You can also soak them in ice water and apply to under eye bags.

Q-tips are critical for blemish care. That will be covered in Part 2 of this series.

Cleanser containing 2% salicylic acid-do not, I repeat, DO NOT use hand or body soap on your face. It will dry your skin out terribly and leave you feeling tight and uncomfortable. It is not worth it. It’ll also make you break out because it’s too harsh for the sensitive skin on your face. Contrary to what the Clinique lady says, you do not have to have a name brand cleanser. I use Clean N’ Clear or Biore, which I buy at Wal-Mart. They go on sale all the time.

You should wash at least once a day, preferably twice. Definitely at night. MUST take off the makeup! Do not go to bed with makeup on your face. Someday it will hit you back and you will not like the results! Washing in the morning as well is ideal, but if you’re pressed for time, this is where a toner comes in handy. It’ll cleanse and refresh and leave you feeling good.

Facial Moisturizer is critical, especially in the winter months. Again, you do not need to buy expensive moisturizers, but they should be formulated for facial skin. Hand and body lotions won’t do. I personally like the Biore stuff the best. It has a nice smell, and it doesn’t go on greasy.

Again, twice a day. At night, I use the Biore Restore Skin Boosting Night Serum, and in the morning, I use the Biore Nourish Moisture Lotion with an SPF of 15.

Let’s talk SPF. You need at least a 15, but even that is almost too low. Preferably something with an SPF of 30 or higher. Protect your skin from the sun!

Exfoliator-at least once a week, you need to exfoliate your skin to remove dead skin and buildup. The St. Ives Apricot Scrub is my personal favorite. There’s no need to be rough with it. A gentle rubbing motion will do the trick. Your skin will be left feeling silky!

Hand and body lotion are a daily necessity! Keep those hands and legs feeling nice and smooth! My favorite is Suave Powder Fresh. It goes on nicely, absorbs well, and doesn’t leave me feeling greasy. If you can find one with an SPF of 25 or higher, you’re doing great!

The best lotion I’ve found for chapped heels is Eucerin. It’s thick, and perfect for wearing overnight. I lather it on, then wrap my feet in a thin layer of Saran Wrap (not too tight, so you don’t cut off circulation), then put on thick socks. You don’t end up with grease spots on the floor, and your feet will love you. My dad used to tell me that I had the feet of an 80 year old woman, thanks to running around all summer with no shoes on. Now I have lovely young feet! It works!

Chapstick…last but not least. Protect your lips! They’re the most sensitive part of your face and deserve special attention. I use Burt’s Bees chapstick, which has an SPF of 30. Apply often, especially in cold, windy, or dry climates.

(Also, check out For the Love of Lipstuff for tips focusing on just your lips!)

Skin care really isn’t hard. Just take a few minutes each day to take care of your skin, and you’ll feel amazing. Remember, not everyone is born with great skin, but you can all look like you were!

What's the whole point?

2011-11-09T12:00:00.000-07:00

I know, you're thinking "another blog?!" I was too. But I've been wanting to do this for a long time, and I've decided that it'll take the place of my writing blog. That one was, well, not much fun. So, it's going away and this one shall remain. Woo!

So what's the point of this one?

Well, I want to live fabulously and I want you to as well! So I'll be sharing tips and tricks for all aspects of a fabulous life. Some of them will be my tips and some will be tips that I find (with due credit given, of course).

So, here's to living fabulous!